@lizethloweofficial: The Biology of Survival One of the most dangerous misconceptions about trauma is the belief that if someone didn’t fight back, scream, run, or show obvious signs of physical resistance, then what happened to them must somehow be less believable. But the human nervous system does not respond to danger according to what will make sense later. It responds according to one command: Survive. When the brain perceives extreme fear or threat, the amygdala and other survival systems can rapidly activate automatic responses before conscious, rational decision making has time to catch up. We often hear about fight or flight, but survival can also look like freezing, becoming immobilized, complying, going quiet, dissociating, or trying not to escalate the threat. A person may be unable to scream. Unable to move. Unable to fight. They may comply because, in that moment, their brain perceives resistance as more dangerous. They may do “nothing” because doing nothing is what their nervous system determines gives them the best chance of surviving. That is not consent. And it is not evidence that someone wasn’t afraid. We have to stop judging a person’s response to trauma by imagining what we think we would have done. The question should not be: “Why didn’t you fight back?” Sometimes the more important question is: “What did your body have to do to keep you alive?” Survival does not always look like fighting. Sometimes survival looks like becoming completely still. Source of video clip: Apple Tree Yard #traumahealing #amygdala #MentalHealth #survivor #healing

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sleuthlie
Context queen :
APPLE TREE YARD is the name of the show ❤️
2026-07-22 07:37:43
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elephashley
elephashley :
For anyone wondering, this is what a man protecting a woman looks like. Not fighting off bears & alligators. Not brawling. This - shattering other men's misogyny the moment it happens, & with such finality that they'll think twice before doing it again. All to protect her, to support her, *for* her.
2026-07-21 07:17:22
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theway2391
nikkiredfive :
Fight, flight and freeze. People always forget about freeze…
2026-07-22 00:07:58
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msjmyates
Jen Y :
as a survivor I approve this message 💯💯💯💯
2026-07-20 23:17:42
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kellystory4
Kelly Frazier :
best representation I've seen on this point
2026-07-21 04:45:27
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shield0772
Shawn Brown :
This is a great husband
2026-07-21 10:22:23
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kevhamvo
kevhamVO :
And even while he’s afraid he still didn’t have to fear being SA’ed by him.
2026-07-22 15:29:23
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novagirl289
NovaGirl289 :
Because they wouldn’t believe us, even with evidence. I took a shower and moved on. I “moved on” for over 20 years. I didn’t tell anyone until 3 years ago. There wasn’t a point. I survived. That was enough.
2026-07-21 01:35:10
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qtbabydoll
QT :
he gets it and he would have got it from me💯🥰
2026-07-22 23:45:26
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kjbh65
Kjbh65 :
I repost this every time I see it.
2026-07-21 22:19:53
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that_guy_gwin
Gwin :
W husband
2026-07-22 19:10:11
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gaychancla
gaychancla :
I approve what he just said as a SA survivor
2026-07-21 20:51:53
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creative.counselor2
Faith with boots on :
Counselors can confirm this, because it is the main reason for guilt that the victim deals with..... I could have done this, or that. Victims need to be heard.
2026-07-21 05:38:58
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msej078
MSEJ :
I love this. 💯
2026-07-22 18:38:30
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foscyn
SGRWN :
This satisfied to my core. I didn’t know I needed this demonstration of how human response works.
2026-07-21 15:17:41
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rajmataj10
Shiraaaaj :
Amazing scene
2026-07-22 14:01:55
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jazzyj0817
Jazz :
They dont get it till its happening to them.
2026-07-21 18:42:11
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blendedmelanin
Hadassah :
That's a good man Savannah!
2026-07-21 18:01:07
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darkestevergreen
evergreen :
This should be required watching. He wasn't out of control, he was mean. He was measured with the intent to educate the man about how a woman being SAd, or a man with a knife to his throat, reacts physically and psychologically.
2026-07-21 15:33:05
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laneyraye21
laneyraye21 :
The only correct response to this question.
2026-07-21 05:24:41
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castaneights505
Aileen I. Castaneda-Leibenguth :
Every man should at least watch this clip because I froze. I didn’t tell anyone and I still haven’t until now.
2026-07-22 04:30:28
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primshell
ree2the3 :
as the detective sat there, not fighting back, body in survival mode. he understood then!
2026-07-22 01:16:40
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mshashtag
mshashtag :
POWERFUL
2026-07-22 12:51:16
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geminipearl86
Tuscanéy Alberty :
solid sobbing for minutes...this, just this
2026-07-22 01:04:01
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rojaloca.13
Rojaloca13°JessikaJonez :
I never skip this video.
2026-07-21 15:43:54
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