No no no bro you’re absolutely wrong on this one. Relationships fundamentally provide something you can’t generate alone. That’s the whole point. And no one is asking you to take responsibility for another person. They’re asking you to carry your own weight which includes relational responsibility
2026-07-20 18:26:11
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MorohaChan :
Why do people miss the point it really show that they are still very codependent 🫢
2026-07-21 05:38:19
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raeology• :
Right right. I had such an issue understanding this in my past relationship. He was clear and I didn’t understand why he thought my sharing of insecurities was emotional dumping. Really he was saying I’m not in control of how you feel about yourself you have to regulate that. I’m still wrapping my brain around it. This is so foreign. Thanks for your perspective.
2026-07-20 18:22:07
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Skip Nedrick :
People need to watch this twice to really digest what you are saying
2026-07-20 21:33:29
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✨Wicked Games✨ :
This take seems slightly different than most of your other takes, very refreshing.
2026-07-20 21:16:48
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𝕽𝕽 :
“I’m not gonna think about what I could’ve done better, when you didn’t tell me.” 💯
2026-07-21 16:57:10
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Tepid :
like I still don't get why you don't want to help someone bridge the gaps. because you don't need to? if you valued the connection with them why wouldn't you want to help if they struggle with something. I understand that you don't want to. it just makes you feel bad? I don't get it
2026-07-21 03:33:10
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AWBeauty :
You have options vs ppl in survival mode. Is this what I’m hearing? Like the more healthy you are the more you choose or decide to not be in a relationship vs an insecure person who has a need for control?
2026-07-24 02:50:39
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busta(mante) :
I’m only halfway through the video and I already perfectly understand what you’re saying, I don’t understand why some people on the comments don’t lol
2026-08-06 17:19:06
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Huni874 :
I believe I need to stay single nobody gets hurt
2026-08-25 12:43:28
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Iman :
this is the most realest thing i’ve seen wallahi you just unlocked a whole other perspective in my head 😭😭
2026-07-21 06:31:10
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Dealing With A Cheater? :
Being the scapegoat often means you refused to lose yourself to someone else's manipulation.
When blame, secrecy, and constant accusations become the pattern, it's worth paying attention instead of questioning your own reality.
The truth has a way of exposing deception, bringing clarity, healing, and the strength to move forward.
2026-07-24 02:37:36
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Priscila Luquez :
Ngl. I got distracted bruh
2026-07-23 07:00:09
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Jessijane1o1 :
I don’t always agree with what you say but this one was one point
2026-07-21 17:13:45
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Hermit :
thank you.
2026-07-21 01:50:12
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thevictoriablack :
Drop 👏 the 👏 book
2026-07-20 23:25:22
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