@melissajbyrnex: Fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice, GET IN THE BIN. Abuse is abuse, no matter where it’s ’come from’. You do not have to tolerate what you wouldn’t do yourself. 🫶🏼
hi Mel, I've been watching your videos for a long time and just wanted to say thank you. your videos have made an absolute difference to my life for the better. I feel so seen 🫶
2026-07-22 07:03:40
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Mango4the win 🏳️⚧️🇵🇸🏳️🌈 :
You are fantastic Mel, I appreciate what you are doing with your experiences. the amount of people you are helping is immeasurable. love ya xx
2026-07-21 17:18:18
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Brunette4life :
insecurities are projection
2026-07-20 21:39:12
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FRAN 💚 :
Thank you!! ❤️
2026-07-21 06:17:14
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Kieron :
And let’s get this straight, if someone who is being abusive, was abused, then they should absolutely know how that feels and shouldn’t want to do it to someone else.
2026-07-21 11:24:16
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⃟ :
watching your content on my secret account (to hide from him) helped me move forward and leave him. it’s been a month and 3 weeks now and i’m so much happier i appreciate you so much
2026-07-20 16:21:38
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kirstymichaelaosullivan :
adore this women
2026-07-20 16:26:39
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S :
hi gorgeous I don't understand people whove been abused abused somebody as they know the mental trauma why would they want to inflicted on somebody else
2026-07-20 18:37:15
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Maisy ♡ :
what mascara do you use your lashes are beautiful ❤️
2026-07-20 16:23:51
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64kazm :
Well said Mel, we have a choice to change to break the cycle!!
2026-07-20 16:34:16
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Laura IVF Journey :
I heard this a lot and it’s not right
2026-07-20 20:08:32
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Cheryl Robinson :
I got away from my Mum when I was 25, was the best thing ever
2026-07-21 01:23:17
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Hayley L Fitzjohn :
I was abused by multiple family members on different levels, I’m not abusive! I could never treat another person how I was treated at times!
2026-07-20 17:16:32
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Kitten3695🐈 :
My ex did exactly this to me, blamed his childhood for reason he did what he did to me and the kids, thankfully we are away from him now 🖤
2026-07-20 16:52:18
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ANGRY CHOMP :
following has helped alot ive always hated my weight I went through alot in life one month into my dieting and feel amazing I simply blocked out the pwople who made me feel really crap about myself and they wonder why I no longer speak to them, your really strong and I appreciate your help to us all ❤️
2026-07-20 16:23:31
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wootcrisp🇨🇦🇬🇧🇵🇸🌲 :
well said.
2026-07-20 19:05:21
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Lucie :
my mum calls me things and her excuse for it I'd that I'm rude to her
2026-07-21 11:31:55
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Heidi Ellwood :
totally agree mel 👏 your responsibility is your own ,they know how it made them feel so why on earth would they put someone else in the same position x 🤔
2026-07-20 17:54:03
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TanyaBeauTeddy🩷🐶🐹 :
i went through absolute hell with my ex, i believe he actually thought what he was doing was right 💕
2026-07-20 18:51:22
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♑️♌️✝️✝️🕎.⚕️. :
incredibly concerning that people think otherwise 🤔 🙄 😕
2026-07-21 02:54:35
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rose :
Well said 😘
2026-07-20 19:46:15
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🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🤟Ali Als 🐈⬛🐈🧶 :
💯 If it happened to you and you knos it hurt you, why would you do it to someone you love, or anyone for that matter?! You need to learn from it and heal, not pass your trauma on!
2026-07-20 18:57:35
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GERTY ROOD :
I've known people with amazing childhoods, and narcs that blame their victims..
I'm too old care now, but it's NEVER the victim
2026-07-21 19:09:11
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✨Marnie✨ :
as someone who used to be messed up beyond belief and DID hurt people because I was hurt and thought it was the right way to react (not okay at all) and has now grown out of it and gotten help, IT. IS. NEVER. AN. EXCUSE!!!!!
2026-07-21 18:17:32
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