@smoshpitstories: My Partner Changed Our Wedding Guest List After We Made a Deal.#aitapodcast #smoshpit #reddittrending #boundaries #fyp #WeddingPlanning #WeddingStress #EventPlanning

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meadow12017
meadow1201 :
So what? Go to separate weddings. You can’t be alone ??
2026-07-22 06:33:33
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jenny.smith14
jenny.smith14 :
NEVER would I ask the bride if I can have a plus one, when that was not on the invitation! No matter what the circumstances.
2026-07-21 22:45:44
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gocrustorgohome
gocrustorgohome🇮🇪 :
I don’t see the issue with them going to one wedding each
2026-07-20 17:48:48
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kclem001
Kclem001 :
Typically I would say each just go to their own friends wedding,but I think the wrinkle here is that she went out of her way to ask her friend if they could make room for him when he wasn't originally on the guest list and now he's backing out after other people have been inconvenienced. It's going to make OP look bad with her friends and possibly cause a rift with them. Because of that, I think he should honor his original commitment.
2026-07-21 10:43:20
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kerrywelsh815
Kerry :
You each go to your own friend's wedding. He has a stronger relationship with his friend than he does to yours. Since you're allowed to bring a plus one, just take someone else with you.
2026-07-22 19:44:29
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aprilblair949
3meows2woofwoofs :
Divide and conquer it is simple
2026-07-22 22:17:08
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sarab22239
Sara :
yta
2026-07-21 01:19:19
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vrichardsonjr
Vernon Richardson957 :
Just go separately. I’m sure OP pushed for him to go to the first wedding without being prompted. She should have just let well enough alone🤣
2026-07-23 02:49:26
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jrocky2023
J Song87 :
I think she needs to reach out to her friend and apologize for the inconvenience and ask how she would prefer to handle the situation. It would be very rude to show up solo or with some random person as weddings usually have people who didn’t make the cut and could be invited instead
2026-07-22 05:00:10
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southernerinnyc
souther In NYC :
if this is how you handle the situation, he needs to reconsider letting you move in.
2026-07-21 13:02:49
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thejustin99
thejustin99 :
Yes OP is the AH.
2026-07-21 17:48:35
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marilee753
MLeeB753 :
You go to your friend’s wedding, he goes to his friends wedding. It will be fine. It was kind of rude of you to ask for a plus one to your friend’s wedding
2026-07-21 21:52:32
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zayalizegarcia
ZayalizeGarcia ⁷ :
Technically, he agreed to go to his friends wedding first. The story said the man’s friend didn’t send a save the date but he was most likely verbal invited after the proposal and agreed to go to their wedding. So I think the best thing to do is each go to their own friends wedding.
2026-07-22 20:51:03
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whatanothingburger
Weeewooo :
9 months is “just under a year” in the same way that 75% on an exam is nearly a perfect score.
2026-07-22 15:08:36
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bassetrancher
bassetrancher :
seems controlling, let him go to his friends. he said go to your friends.
2026-07-21 10:30:57
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gurupaulu
GuruPaulU❌️🥓 :
Hope he breaks up with her before moving in together. If she cant navigate a small inconvenience like this she is not ready for a relationship.
2026-07-21 17:10:59
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mjm123450
mjm123450 🇨🇦 :
Go to separate weddings. Ops friend didn’t want the bf there anyway since they’ve only been together for a hot minute
2026-07-23 15:35:53
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no_interest_1234
no_interest_1234 :
Go on your own to each wedding.
2026-07-23 05:15:49
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shay00711
shay :
I think it’s odd to ask for a plus one especially after less than a year of dating. Are people really this codependent they can’t attend a wedding alone?
2026-07-22 01:06:04
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dilly4sho
Noone :
yta
2026-07-21 13:03:22
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ndlalli
Mary Rose :
I would never send save the dates again. I thought they would be a fun little thing. People were insane about them
2026-07-21 21:33:07
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rup8084
rup :
She pushed for a plus one and she embarrassed the she has to go back and cancel with the bride. It’s about her saving face
2026-07-21 17:31:33
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carolyn11111111111
Carolyn111111111112 :
I couldnt ever be with someone like jer. he should RUN
2026-07-22 06:03:04
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nicolewalshnt
Nicole Walsh :
Yep also
2026-07-21 13:29:37
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plopez1683
Phillip Lopez :
OP is unable to be flexible and understanding
2026-07-22 18:05:54
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