@smoshpitstories: My Partner Changed Our Wedding Guest List After We Made a Deal.#aitapodcast #smoshpit #reddittrending #boundaries #fyp #WeddingPlanning #WeddingStress #EventPlanning
So what? Go to separate weddings. You can’t be alone ??
2026-07-22 06:33:33
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jenny.smith14 :
NEVER would I ask the bride if I can have a plus one, when that was not on the invitation! No matter what the circumstances.
2026-07-21 22:45:44
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gocrustorgohome🇮🇪 :
I don’t see the issue with them going to one wedding each
2026-07-20 17:48:48
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Kclem001 :
Typically I would say each just go to their own friends wedding,but I think the wrinkle here is that she went out of her way to ask her friend if they could make room for him when he wasn't originally on the guest list and now he's backing out after other people have been inconvenienced. It's going to make OP look bad with her friends and possibly cause a rift with them. Because of that, I think he should honor his original commitment.
2026-07-21 10:43:20
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Kerry :
You each go to your own friend's wedding. He has a stronger relationship with his friend than he does to yours. Since you're allowed to bring a plus one, just take someone else with you.
2026-07-22 19:44:29
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3meows2woofwoofs :
Divide and conquer it is simple
2026-07-22 22:17:08
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Sara :
yta
2026-07-21 01:19:19
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Vernon Richardson957 :
Just go separately. I’m sure OP pushed for him to go to the first wedding without being prompted. She should have just let well enough alone🤣
2026-07-23 02:49:26
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J Song87 :
I think she needs to reach out to her friend and apologize for the inconvenience and ask how she would prefer to handle the situation. It would be very rude to show up solo or with some random person as weddings usually have people who didn’t make the cut and could be invited instead
2026-07-22 05:00:10
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souther In NYC :
if this is how you handle the situation, he needs to reconsider letting you move in.
2026-07-21 13:02:49
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thejustin99 :
Yes OP is the AH.
2026-07-21 17:48:35
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MLeeB753 :
You go to your friend’s wedding, he goes to his friends wedding. It will be fine. It was kind of rude of you to ask for a plus one to your friend’s wedding
2026-07-21 21:52:32
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ZayalizeGarcia ⁷ :
Technically, he agreed to go to his friends wedding first. The story said the man’s friend didn’t send a save the date but he was most likely verbal invited after the proposal and agreed to go to their wedding. So I think the best thing to do is each go to their own friends wedding.
2026-07-22 20:51:03
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Weeewooo :
9 months is “just under a year” in the same way that 75% on an exam is nearly a perfect score.
2026-07-22 15:08:36
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bassetrancher :
seems controlling, let him go to his friends. he said go to your friends.
2026-07-21 10:30:57
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GuruPaulU❌️🥓 :
Hope he breaks up with her before moving in together. If she cant navigate a small inconvenience like this she is not ready for a relationship.
2026-07-21 17:10:59
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mjm123450 🇨🇦 :
Go to separate weddings. Ops friend didn’t want the bf there anyway since they’ve only been together for a hot minute
2026-07-23 15:35:53
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no_interest_1234 :
Go on your own to each wedding.
2026-07-23 05:15:49
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shay :
I think it’s odd to ask for a plus one especially after less than a year of dating. Are people really this codependent they can’t attend a wedding alone?
2026-07-22 01:06:04
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Noone :
yta
2026-07-21 13:03:22
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Mary Rose :
I would never send save the dates again. I thought they would be a fun little thing. People were insane about them
2026-07-21 21:33:07
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rup :
She pushed for a plus one and she embarrassed the she has to go back and cancel with the bride. It’s about her saving face
2026-07-21 17:31:33
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Carolyn111111111112 :
I couldnt ever be with someone like jer. he should RUN
2026-07-22 06:03:04
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Nicole Walsh :
Yep also
2026-07-21 13:29:37
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Phillip Lopez :
OP is unable to be flexible and understanding
2026-07-22 18:05:54
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