@melrobbins: Pay attention to who they are when they think no one is watching. Dr. Leanne ten Brinke is the #1 researcher in the world on dark personalities and a professor at the University of British Columbia, where she studies trust, deception, manipulation, and dark personality traits. On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast with Dr. @leannetenbrinke, you’ll learn how to spot manipulation, recognize dark personality traits, and stop second-guessing what you’re seeing when someone’s behavior doesn’t match their words. 🎧 “The Manipulation Expert: 4 Hidden Signs You’re Dealing With a Toxic Person”
Mel Robbins
Region: US
Monday 20 July 2026 17:48:21 GMT
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jillandjagger :
I thought that was Miranda
2026-07-21 01:06:45
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braco561 :
Also how they treat their mother
2026-07-20 18:44:43
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sweetmint :
mine was always nice other people but mean to me
2026-07-20 22:33:44
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Anghilus :
mine was always polite to service people but treated me like sh1t
2026-07-20 21:45:24
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Nico :
Going through this currently! Everyone else gets treated wayyy better than me…narcissist tendencies
2026-07-23 21:33:57
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Kuya Potato MainShop ✅️ :
for me, it feels like we need to chase them and the make us feel irritated because of silent treatment
2026-07-25 16:02:25
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Angelataylor174 :
Inconsistencies
2026-07-20 18:38:09
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mimi.rg :
I sрent yеarѕ reрeаting the sаme patterns without reаlizing it, and the hardеst part iѕ that I thоught they werе јust part of who I waѕ. After rеadіng The Тimеlеss Principlеs оf Life by A. Frіedman, I finally understood why I kерt holding myself back.
2026-07-21 00:38:25
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Megs :
What about friendships?
2026-07-24 01:34:23
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Dr. Gracelyn :
Sometimes we miss those red flags because we are so enamored. Look for the patterns.
2026-07-23 18:55:05
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Hayden Marble :
its sooooo much worse when they are the nicest guy in the world to everyone else. I dont talk to friends about relationship issues because nobody would ever believe me.
2026-07-20 20:34:47
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Jure Verč :
Manipulation always involves breaking boundaries, no?
2026-07-21 23:52:07
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Mercyinspire✨ :
The real test of who you are is how you treat people who can do nothing for you.📌
2026-07-20 23:00:26
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kent n (cyn003188) :
sure.. this analysis is absolutely true.. basic observations is to watch what they do when they are in their natural\routine environment ✌️✌️✌️💐💐💐
2026-07-24 02:50:09
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nativevegasgirl :
Spoiler alert. If you never outsource your needs (validation, love, approval,etc) you’ll never be their prey.
2026-07-21 02:19:13
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Bookkeeper :
love bombing 100%
2026-07-20 21:32:03
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itsjazercastillon :
Also watch out for people who pressure you to decide right away. They don't want you to think about what decision might be the best one for you. You don't have to decide right away. You are entitled to choose what's best for you.
2026-07-21 01:41:24
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kimkimᵕ̈ :
This is actually outdated. They have seen this being debunked years before now they know how to pretend kind to waiters and servers or strangers in general.
2026-07-21 04:11:48
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SimplyHalal :
When they play the victim - or pull in ur emotions then they are out to get something from u
2026-07-20 20:10:01
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user7356799602193 :
Yes, see how they treat people who can’t help them.
2026-07-21 05:47:09
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JaydenB :
I love your podcasts and have all your books
2026-07-20 17:53:03
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✨NoNo’s🩵Healing✨ :
Oh he treated them 10x better then me after we married. So fake.
2026-07-20 19:21:23
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Raquel ✡︎🫶🏻 :
Mel my dream is to be on your podcast
2026-07-20 17:50:41
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cloud9ine61🇪🇸 :
Yes
2026-07-23 23:19:49
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cake mix :
the closest people to them get treated the worse
2026-07-22 02:05:35
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