@melrobbins: Pay attention to who they are when they think no one is watching. Dr. Leanne ten Brinke is the #1 researcher in the world on dark personalities and a professor at the University of British Columbia, where she studies trust, deception, manipulation, and dark personality traits. On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast with Dr. @leannetenbrinke, you’ll learn how to spot manipulation, recognize dark personality traits, and stop second-guessing what you’re seeing when someone’s behavior doesn’t match their words. 🎧 “The Manipulation Expert: 4 Hidden Signs You’re Dealing With a Toxic Person”

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jillandjagger
jillandjagger :
I thought that was Miranda
2026-07-21 01:06:45
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braco561
braco561 :
Also how they treat their mother
2026-07-20 18:44:43
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sweetmintnc83
sweetmint :
mine was always nice other people but mean to me
2026-07-20 22:33:44
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anghilus
Anghilus :
mine was always polite to service people but treated me like sh1t
2026-07-20 21:45:24
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armani_nic
Nico :
Going through this currently! Everyone else gets treated wayyy better than me…narcissist tendencies
2026-07-23 21:33:57
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kuyapotato.affiliate.acc
Kuya Potato MainShop ✅️ :
for me, it feels like we need to chase them and the make us feel irritated because of silent treatment
2026-07-25 16:02:25
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angelataylor521
Angelataylor174 :
Inconsistencies
2026-07-20 18:38:09
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thearcher.m
mimi.rg :
I sрent yеarѕ reрeаting the sаme patterns without reаlizing it, and the hardеst part iѕ that I thоught they werе јust part of who I waѕ. After rеadіng The Тimеlеss Principlеs оf Life by A. Frіedman, I finally understood why I kерt holding myself back.
2026-07-21 00:38:25
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itsmeegannotmeghan
Megs :
What about friendships?
2026-07-24 01:34:23
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risewithdrgrace
Dr. Gracelyn :
Sometimes we miss those red flags because we are so enamored. Look for the patterns.
2026-07-23 18:55:05
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hayden.marble
Hayden Marble :
its sooooo much worse when they are the nicest guy in the world to everyone else. I dont talk to friends about relationship issues because nobody would ever believe me.
2026-07-20 20:34:47
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jureverc
Jure Verč :
Manipulation always involves breaking boundaries, no?
2026-07-21 23:52:07
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mercyinspire2
Mercyinspire✨ :
The real test of who you are is how you treat people who can do nothing for you.📌
2026-07-20 23:00:26
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kent.n.cyn003
kent n (cyn003188) :
sure.. this analysis is absolutely true.. basic observations is to watch what they do when they are in their natural\routine environment ✌️✌️✌️💐💐💐
2026-07-24 02:50:09
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nativevegasgirl
nativevegasgirl :
Spoiler alert. If you never outsource your needs (validation, love, approval,etc) you’ll never be their prey.
2026-07-21 02:19:13
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bookkeeping23
Bookkeeper :
love bombing 100%
2026-07-20 21:32:03
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itsjazercastillon
itsjazercastillon :
Also watch out for people who pressure you to decide right away. They don't want you to think about what decision might be the best one for you. You don't have to decide right away. You are entitled to choose what's best for you.
2026-07-21 01:41:24
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kimsunber
kimkimᵕ̈ :
This is actually outdated. They have seen this being debunked years before now they know how to pretend kind to waiters and servers or strangers in general.
2026-07-21 04:11:48
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simplyhalal.co
SimplyHalal :
When they play the victim - or pull in ur emotions then they are out to get something from u
2026-07-20 20:10:01
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imaximus786
user7356799602193 :
Yes, see how they treat people who can’t help them.
2026-07-21 05:47:09
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jayden.296
JaydenB :
I love your podcasts and have all your books
2026-07-20 17:53:03
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nonoshealing
✨NoNo’s🩵Healing✨ :
Oh he treated them 10x better then me after we married. So fake.
2026-07-20 19:21:23
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shotbyraq
Raquel ✡︎🫶🏻 :
Mel my dream is to be on your podcast
2026-07-20 17:50:41
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cloud9ine61
cloud9ine61🇪🇸 :
Yes
2026-07-23 23:19:49
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elizabettmay8
cake mix :
the closest people to them get treated the worse
2026-07-22 02:05:35
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