Rachel Lovely
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Monday 20 July 2026 18:23:53 GMT
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jordan :
PEOPLE WANT TO DANCE WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE DANCING
2026-07-20 19:10:58
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megan :
Rachel it's time to start a podcast
2026-07-20 20:35:43
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Melanie ☀️🌊🥥🌴 :
✍🏼you’ve✍🏼already✍🏼won✍🏼just✍🏼by✍🏼showing✍🏼up✍🏼
2026-07-20 22:47:23
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Nina :
Volunteer at any type of event. Knowing you belong puts you at ease in speaking first. Use that lesson for life ;)
2026-07-20 22:27:57
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T Ham :
As someone who lives alone, I also feel like I am often walking into a social situation completely “cold”, because I’ve literally been by myself for 12-32 hours lol. So I “warm-up” by pregaming with a glass of wine or cocktail (social lubricant) as I get ready, listen to a funny witty podcast to prime myself for similar conversation, and try to wear an outfit I feel very confident in. 👍🏼
2026-07-21 00:46:37
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madelyn :
I have found that at networking events a simple “mind if I join you?” always works, and typically gets a response of “of course! we were just talking about XYZ…”
2026-07-20 22:24:13
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Brooke :
Also, a beta blocker
2026-07-20 22:58:13
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claire 🎰✨ :
i love this advice. i give compliments out everywhere because even if its fleeting its genuine connection. it becomes easier and more natural too! and i used to be very introverted
2026-07-20 21:40:40
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leslixmartinez :
Compliment people, be open, don’t look at ur phone, smile, ask names etc
2026-07-21 22:29:06
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Purpreighn :
I want to add, hype yourself up before walking in. Affirm yourself, say aloud how much of a great person you are, “You got this”. It makes a difference 🫶🏾✨
2026-07-20 23:45:32
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Miss Fiction :
“people want to dance with people who are dancing” is so gold
2026-07-20 22:17:42
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Sarah :
Trying to insert myself into conversation is my actual biggest nightmare so this is actually very helpful
2026-07-20 21:08:13
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Malsey :
Like so many things in life, this boils down to self confidence. So important to build this in your youth with exposure to a variety of situations!
2026-07-20 19:02:58
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angelcake.333 :
you’ve proven to yourself that you can cope with uncomfortable situations too if it goes wrong
2026-07-21 02:02:30
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kath :
all of this is AMAZING advice
2026-07-23 22:35:29
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notesfromkim :
this mindset, yes
2026-07-23 23:53:51
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Gabby Pensiero :
Thank you!!
2026-07-24 01:16:44
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Irene Choi :
rachel lovely for president
2026-07-21 04:52:10
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KB :
naming your emotions is often a GREAT entry line! “I’m alone here and a little nervous, mind if I join your conversation?”
2026-07-21 01:18:12
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Enrique 🪴 :
This was extremely helpful actually
2026-07-20 19:54:59
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JB :
I always say “can I stand here” and I’ve made a good amount of friends doing that. Especially when I’m traveling.
2026-07-20 23:55:58
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blacknbitchy☻ :
engage, disarm, hook, connect, questions.
2026-07-20 22:00:15
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Rosemarine Textiles :
when you treat people like youre already friends, people really respond to that and match that energy
2026-07-22 05:22:03
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KristinaExplainsItAll :
Your hair is so shiny
2026-07-20 19:42:52
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colby :
“People wanna dance with people who are dancing” is life changing advice! Love this so much!!
2026-07-21 00:43:54
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