Who the hell would want to put up with that. Then she controls the relationship
2026-07-21 13:52:59
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Mr Ozempic :
What if she’s being unfaithful during all this “space”?
2026-07-22 03:06:57
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dj Professor X :
she getting all the space...I'm out.
2026-07-31 18:35:36
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Gonçalo Vieira :
so only now i’m learning this 2 weeks post breakup, this would be so helpfull 3,5 years ago… now there is nothing i can do i ruined it all with the time, i pressured, took it personally, let it make me insecure with the time… im broken now and it’s my fault
2026-07-22 23:40:41
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mick :
10 weeks into no contact and we saw each other for the first time yesterday 😪😪😪feel like we lost the one thing we both want its so sad to be attracted to someone who you just cannot figure out im heart broken
2026-07-21 03:38:14
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Marty Doorley :
For any man thinking this video is the answer. Can you picture caring about or loving someone who you never know is going to stay or return again. When she leaves and never talks about why. If you deeply care about her you will ruin yourself or at least settle for something that confuses you to your soul.
2026-07-21 12:04:28
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WhoDoYouThinkItIs111 :
What runs her strategy is third parties. What turns it off is when she has been free from them a few days.
2026-07-22 10:36:29
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az :
ill never undertand it , I dont get how someone can push somthing so good away and self sabotage a great relationship
2026-07-21 21:35:47
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Ry Guy :
Loving an avoidant is the most confusing, torturous experience. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
2026-07-22 15:53:16
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carlgibbs841 :
Just why in hell would a person want to live with someone like this ? It's always a game that you can't win. Who wants to play games just to be with a person like that ? 🤔
2026-07-22 02:52:26
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♏🎙️=Marvin-Uno=🎙️♏ :
OK...but the most severe of avoidants will also cheat on you as an emotional coping strategy. Thats not good. Avoidants are more potential teouble than theyre worth pursuing.
2026-07-20 23:50:54
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Rambo :
Move on from avoidants. They’re not worth all the nonsense and will never change.
2026-07-22 11:45:13
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Daddy_ :
@wanderingroninxoxo: Everyone’s calling their exes avoidant. Can we go back to the days when millennials used to call their exes bpd(if female) and narcissist(if male)
2026-07-21 13:26:45
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Mark Stanton :
Of all the attachment videos yours is the most concise informative I’ve seen. I’ve known mine for 30 years, I’m probable the cause of her nature. 3 years ago I became the anxious side of us and followed the pattern. Start stop for 2 years until I learnt to create boundaries… become more secure, learn to give her space. I’m willing to work on us…. She has done her part, vulnerability… so yes… I’ll work on myself. No more pursuit… just calm patience.
2026-07-21 05:46:19
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Nur Se Chard :
Thanks. Yeah it really makes sense🙏
2026-07-30 13:40:04
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Kris_MF_Sampson :
Explain how to decipher avoidant behavior vs real detachment, please
2026-09-06 17:58:51
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Ebustars :
Or that might be your sign to check out, before she eventually shows you wonders 🚶🚶
2026-09-03 18:26:49
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Bhenzo-McCarthy :
yep.. that's why I had to end it coz what the hell
2026-09-04 21:16:00
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sluthunter5 :
Her personality is absolutely beautiful. It’s her psychiatric tendencies that are killing our relationship and have killed our relationship. I did thousands of hours of looking into myself with a psychiatrist. I get it all.
2026-09-07 04:20:02
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Robbie :
It's absolutely awful being in love with an avoidant. The fact that they pull away because they care about you is the most confusing thing ever.
2026-07-22 10:54:59
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🖤 :
Started getting alot of “understanding avoidants videos “ gave her grace , after 2 weeks blocked her and continued my growth. Its a cycle you never will leave.
2026-07-22 04:42:25
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captain.splash :
saw this too late. but yeah that was the worst part. Having the best time ever with my bestfriend. Reaching a new high. and then just getting ghosted for awhile. work on yourselves if you’re like this. You are going to have a bunch of temporary people in your life until you do
2026-07-22 06:18:53
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Omaize The Aura :
What if we were tagather for 5 years
2026-08-10 22:44:28
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