@datingwithaly: I knew my future husband would commit quickly. Didn’t matter that the other guy was great on paper, my husband would be sooooo certain about me! (And he was!) 😗 #anxiousattachmentstyle #datingtipsforwomen #breakupadvice #datinginyour20s #datinginyour30s
This is the proof of "Don't let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your husband" 😂
2026-07-20 21:17:20
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riyaapapaya :
I constantly tell myself “my husband will be certain about me” it keeps me going tbh
2026-07-21 01:19:50
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backroadbeth :
I love this for you! But - be wary ladies. What she described as how quickly her now husband moved - 3 days and he was saying he envisioned marrying her, few months and moved in together, etc. can also be love bombing. For her, that was obviously NOT the case…she found her happily ever after. But I also had a guy tell me those things/moved quickly and it was just love bombing and a horrible relationship. So make sure you are staying vigilant and you know the difference between real, true love and love bombing. Again, CONGRATULATIONS to the poster here as I love that she is genuinely happy. Not trying to take away from her happiness or what ended up being true in her experience
2026-07-21 21:37:02
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Aly :
My therapist “so if he was the last man on earth, you wouldn’t be disappointed but you also would not be ecstatic”
2026-07-20 21:00:40
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queeny :
ayyyyyy
2026-08-07 19:53:00
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Bethany Disrespectfully :
I think 8 weeks is completely reasonable to wait for something official
2026-07-21 02:52:00
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legomymegooo :
I’m tired of people trying to convince me of a slow burn and to wait 4-6 months until commitment. Men know soon and my husband will know much before 4-6 months!
2026-07-20 22:41:54
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Trendsetter_Guru :
I've BEEN celibate 4 1/2 year's because I know God isn't the author of confusion 💯 so my discernment is my guide and the Holy Spirit. WHEN I see it's not progressive I'm out ✌🏾 they're taking you off the market to experience YOU NOT making you their forever 🥴 My Boaz will know my value the first time. O stay attracting AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT men 🤦🏾 absolutely 💯 not
2026-07-23 13:44:07
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Jasmin Bridges 💕 :
Walked away today. Can’t wait till this is me recording this 🥰
2026-07-21 02:12:53
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Big Em :
“I knew my future husband would commit quickly” absolutely absolutely
2026-07-21 21:37:21
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kems :
This!!!! This just happened to me today. It feels like God is sending a message. I don’t move slow, I need urgency. I decided to walk away. It suck’s but this just gave me hope.
2026-07-21 04:23:59
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em :
I've been saying "my husband would never" and it's made it easier to get over someone because it's so true
2026-07-21 02:19:08
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rosyt_007 :
how can everyone get bfs in months and im single since 27 years😂😂
2026-07-22 11:42:10
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LynnieKayTee :
And don’t forget in most cases there is no such thing as being “scared” because they will work through whatever it is that’s initially holding them back.
2026-07-20 22:42:07
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Ashlee Elease :
Message that I needed thank you🥰
2026-07-21 04:09:47
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Sarah🇨🇦 :
3 days saying he saw himself marrying you 😳 I was always taught that was a red flag too
2026-07-22 15:13:01
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justhere12345 :
opposite for me, too many wanna get married and have a life and guy I just met you 😂 I have a love bomb me energy clearly 😂 only time I think hmmm (not really btw) but I met a very very rich and handsome man, stupidly handsome, stupidly rich, stupidly kind but had a few issues that I saw as red flags (they were, I don't actually regret ending it) but he said he loved me in two weeks and let's go to the Maldives. I cut it off. anyways, next guy was a longer term relationship and turned out abusive and I fell pregnant. sometimes I wonder the difference if I'd stayed with him and had a child, least I wouldn't worry about nappies 😂 I say this light hearted cause I don't regret ending it, I adore my child. love bombing is super dangerous though 🙃
2026-07-22 18:19:37
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Emoney28 :
“Our marriage is my favorite part of my life” is sooooooo beautiful 😢 I hope I find that too
2026-07-26 05:30:33
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nsoleillee :
People have to realize, you can be a wonderful person & still not someone’s person ❤️
2026-07-21 02:44:50
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ENSONTI MYKIAA ♡ :
You also respected YOURSELF which is key when dating. You knew when he couldn’t rise to your standards to exit stage left👏🏾
2026-07-22 18:51:28
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Leah S :
Getting engaged after 9 months is WILD. 😭 Glad it worked out for you, but I have a lower risk tolerance and would not be willing to take that risk no matter how much I like anyone.
2026-07-20 22:44:00
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avery :
my rule is 3 months but if it’s more than that, I’m definitely out
2026-07-20 21:59:33
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Kelsey and Charlee :
Idk I had a guy who told me he was super certain and then still ghosted me at 3 months. I don’t think there are hard and fast rules for any of this
2026-07-20 19:48:11
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QueenE 👑 :
This is a sign…. Sigh
2026-07-21 02:18:58
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Vanesa 🎀 :
After my divorce I had decided that I would only consider staying with someone if I could 100% feel like I was his dream girl!
2026-07-21 03:24:16
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