@hey.shainamarie: I was on a jog and a guy stopped me to ask for my number I was walking home from happy hour and a guy chased me down to ask for my number And I was walking to rent a paddle board and got asked for my number Normally, men don’t approach me in the wild. But what shifted in the last few weeks was where my focus is when I go out into the world. Rather than scan a room, looking for hot guys to hit on I have… 1. Woke up every morning and primed my subconscious mind with a hypnosis track that gets me into FEELING playful and excited for the day 2. I ask myself (after work) what do I want to do today (instead of, where do I go to meet guys) 3. I am open to talk to anyone, I make eye contact, I smile, Im repeating in my head all day, “I am the prize and I’m open to surprises today” These subtle shifts have refocused my attention and energy onto ME. When you’re focused on your own happiness and yourself, men feel it. They sense your joy and that inspires them to approach you because they are attracted to your detached, confident, playful energy. Now it’s your turn…what do YOU want to do? What makes YOU excited? Shut your laptop, stop scrolling and go do that thing in the energy and mindset of, “I’m obsessed with myself and my life” and watch as men are more drawn to YOU. #relationshipadvice

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