people want women and girls to stay silent and just take abuse. us defending ourselves is deemed as worse offense than perpetrators’ crimes. society only likes d€ad victims, but even then they rarely get the grace and justice they deserve (think nicole brown). we can’t never win.
2026-07-20 20:22:24
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Christian :
Amber heard is the abuser
2026-07-20 21:14:25
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Kai :
Fr, I hate those "They both abused eachother " comments when the power dynamic was in his favor and he initiated the abuse.
2026-07-21 01:27:17
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wowodob :
Facts. Believe victims. Believe women.
2026-07-23 04:09:47
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𝓖 :
mutual abuse makes no sense if you think about it longer than 5 minutes anyway. If we’re dating & I come up to you & start beating you black & blue, in what universe would harming me back be also abusive? like what’re you supposed to do logically just take it? they always want you to “just leave” but never like the way you make ur exit
2026-07-21 06:54:44
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HoShi³¹⁵⁵⁶ I ∞ :
bro I believed her but I was so young I went with what the crowd was saying 😭
2026-07-20 22:17:38
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Dixie Normous :
litterally, i had a friend whose man would antagonize her for hours until she was desperate enough to throw hands and he would use that as justification to beat her.... and she even thought she was the bad guy 🙄 made me fkg sick how this guy messed with her brain
2026-07-28 08:18:51
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LoonyLuke :
she was the abuser and everyone could see it and saw through her lies
2026-07-21 01:46:00
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Kaylee |-/ :
i think Johnny had reactive abuse. whereas in an attempt to defend yourself, you become like the abuser hence why there is evidence of them both abusing each other. not sure who started it though so it could be the opposite. i was in a relationship like that
2026-07-21 16:33:54
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crone :
I hope she finds happiness.
2026-07-21 02:14:04
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max (met Samantha Beàrt) :
there was evidence of mutual abuse though.
2026-07-20 19:47:25
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tori :
yeah. people don’t understand. especially if it’s a situation where you genuinely feel scared that you are not going to be able to deescalate things like normal by fawning. Abusers turn animalistic when angry it’s so scary it puts your body into fight or flight mode
2026-07-26 17:22:04
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idrinkpepsimax :
i hate when people try to dehumanize a victim by saying they both were bad and abusing. mutual abuse does not exist, one is abusive and the victim is doing self defense and reacting to the abuse. an abuse victim will almost never be «the perfect victim» and people need to learn and understand this.
2026-07-23 15:34:22
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Sammy :
I’m curious to know if she donated to charity like she said she would. That’s my only issue with her
2026-07-22 22:04:02
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Rose :
People aren’t in an abusive relationship which implies two ways. It is abuse. One way.
2026-07-22 18:28:56
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gloom ☠︎︎ :
always fight back #nevergaf
2026-07-21 13:37:34
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MC :
the young girl I wad back then in fact didnt know better. I thought I could see which men are good, how was I so blind
2026-07-28 00:00:05
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Azula (Taylor’s Version) :
They wanted her to take his abuse silently. It’s really a damaging myth
2026-07-24 22:41:16
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Barb Bush :
I love Amber!
2026-07-21 02:53:08
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Nymphouria :
Yeah people really need to look up reactive abuse
2026-07-21 05:35:52
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katelynjones578 :
no it's not a myth and watched it happen with people. just because it wasn't true in this scenario doesn't mean your allowed to just dismiss it entirely
2026-07-21 18:06:06
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noperope1312 :
This fallacy that TikTok had that women can’t also be abusers is actually insane. Every one in her life said she was also crazy. They were both toxic. She is a millionaire with a vast support network an unending disposable income, not a damsel in distress.
2026-07-20 22:09:00
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