You are 100% allowed to be happy, but you are also 100% allowed to not be absolutely over joyed either and hesitant on how to feel.
2026-07-20 21:29:09
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Sarah💖 :
I have gone through this pretty recently. if you ever need any support or someone to talk to you can definitely reach out! it's not an easy thing to go through but it's such a beautiful thing as well.
2026-07-22 06:10:49
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Mama J :
I’m really sorry that you’re going through all this
2026-08-18 22:24:31
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tori :
handpicked sibling by nellie!
2026-07-20 22:43:00
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Nicolebb :
girl I feel you, although my first baby never made it past 10 weeks, it hurt and I was excited to be pregnant with my daughter. I will say it was tough, I felt guilty that my first wasn't here and he never got to experience life. But my daughter was a gift brought to me from Heaven, and for that I rejoiced and amongst all the fear of losing her, I made sure to also be happy in the moments I had her in my tummy and now in my arms, but I know my first is not forgotten and will always be remembered. I hope this helps and that it let's you know you aren't the only one going through this roller coaster. Rejoice in the moment but it's okay to also feel sad and guilty. I pray for peace in your new journey and that our babies are playing in heaven together watching over their new siblings! ❤️🙏🏻
2026-07-21 04:42:24
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Milani :
You are allowed to feel all your emotions 🤍 Both babies deserve to be celebrated. She hand picked this baby for you mama 🤍
2026-07-20 21:50:27
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Courtney :
God chose you to be a mom for two precious beautiful babies. ❤️You’re allowed to feel every emotion. Love you beautiful mama.
2026-07-20 23:26:34
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Ghostgurrrrrl :
Yes , you are 100% allowed to be happy about your new bundle and miss your little girl at the same time. Your girl will always be with you in your heart . And you can tell her little brother or sister all about her one day. You’ll be okay. And nothing you’re feeling is wrong. You’re allowed to be happy. So please, if you’re missing your girl one day, allow yourself to feel that. But try to enjoy as much of your pregnancy with this one.
2026-07-21 18:48:04
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Annie Rivas :
You are going to feel these emotions every day forever and it’s ok. Nellie would want you to be happy. Just know you are not alone and your feelings are valid. 🩷
2026-07-21 02:36:28
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Autumnphilli :
Im so freaking happy for you. I have been following you for a long time. You deserve to be happy 🥰
2026-07-21 02:08:38
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Anna💖2 under 2 Mama💖 :
I struggled with this when pregnant with Melanie. Best thing I learned is two feelings can coexist at once. You can be grateful and happy to be pregnant again but also be sad and grieving and missing Nellie. I can say with 100% certainty that she sent her little sibling to you as if she was saying "her mama I'm sorry I can't be here to hug you but I'm sending you this baby to do that for me."
2026-07-20 23:38:23
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Carly | IVF :
You can feel both feelings at the same time and that’s okay!! She’s sending your sweet angel baby to you, and how lucky this baby is to have been able to meet their big sister before coming to you 🤍
2026-07-23 14:22:02
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Ashleyyy :
Losing that baby was not fair to you or her, but you are allowed to love this child and be happy and move forward in life. She will always be a part of you. So sorry mama, can’t imagine your pain.
2026-07-20 23:52:58
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ChristiCo :
Oh Momma. You can be 2 things at once. You can be joyful for what you’ve prayed for all this time. And still grieve your precious girl. Please celebrate this new life. We will always remember Nellie.
2026-07-21 01:16:58
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Nataaaaalieeee ♥️ :
I have followed you for soo long and I’m so happy to see this news xxx ❤️
2026-07-22 22:38:02
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beck :
Nellie doesn't want her mommy to be sad she sent you this baby cuz she wanted to see you smile again
2026-07-20 23:56:59
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Mom x 3 | DS and T1D Mama :
You can feel however you need to feel. Here to support your journey mama!!
2026-07-22 00:22:31
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Ashyyyy :
I truly believe when we lose children their spirit returns to you beautiful please don't feel guilty for celebrating the joy of new life xxx
2026-07-24 14:43:01
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A_Grace_18! :
I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and I have a rainbow baby boy any kind of loss of a child is the same in my eyes but honey let me tell you this I felt the same way when I was pregnant with my boy but you are allowed the joy and the happiness it is so beautiful my little boy is the biggest blessing I’ve ever had and I’m praying so hard for you healthy pregnancy and healthy birth and a very healthy baby in Jesus name
2026-08-03 07:07:12
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shawn creamer :
Yes girl ur 100% allowed to be happy for getting a second chance. I kinda know what you feel like cause my niece died five days after she was born and I didn’t get to meet her until her funeral day. I’m sooo happy for you girl u got this.
2026-08-07 10:32:20
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Tayroof :
yes i lost 2 boys, and had many miscarriages in between them. but in the end havr now 3 healthy girs.. but still sometimes it is hard to have not my baby boys
2026-08-26 20:06:03
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AntoniaQ - ADHD coach :
I imagine it’s hormones. Much ❤️
2026-08-04 23:47:16
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Kimmy bowyer :
You are 100% allowed to be happy and sad at the same time. Take this baby as a gift from your beautiful girl ❤️❤️❤️xx
2026-08-04 12:11:53
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Elizabeth Doherty :
Two things can be true at once. You can be happy you’re pregnant and grieve not having your daughter here. This baby is a gift from her❤️
2026-08-04 10:11:24
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jillybee66 :
You are absolutely allowed to be happy xxxxx I bet Nellie sent you this baby to try and take away your pain xxxx grief doesn’t have to end though and you are allowed to still grieve Nellie when you feel you need to xxxxxxx wishing you so much happiness sweetheart xxxx 😘♥️🥰
2026-07-21 12:22:21
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