@cypher.j: possessing the ability to navigate silence in a relationship is easily one of the highest end relationships skills, imo (might lag if you're early just download!!) #relationships #silence #Love #dating
Dear anxious person…Silence is not always rejection!
2026-07-21 00:23:57
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Sacred Embers- Niles, MI :
with someone else's silence, I tend to come to my own conclusions. it's always excruciating to deal with. I appreciate this video
2026-07-20 23:16:27
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Brizzy 🩷 :
Ok he can have a podcast
2026-07-20 23:30:57
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$ir Bashti :
How would you know if someone is truly using silence to “figure things out” or to go mess around? People aren’t as good as they portray themselves as
2026-07-21 18:02:30
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Amy :
My man and I literally just went through this. I am learning to sit with the silence and not assume something is wrong when he’s silent. Learning to heal my anxious attachment.
2026-07-21 13:50:02
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Akvarijus :
I’ve been getting your videos on my for you page for weeks and I feel like you’re the most compassionate person who talks about relationships of any kind. When anyone else everyone’s trying to really judge someone at the end someone gets judged either yourself or the other instead of how much new one says and it seems to see new ones in almost everything and I really admire
2026-08-03 11:56:53
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Hailey 💀 :
I personally just sit in silence a lot. Like I genuinely just have nothing to say the majority of the time, I’ll talk when I want to or need to but the rest of the time I’m quiet
2026-07-21 02:28:19
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×.°+.eve .°×•.+ :
the timing is insane
2026-08-04 16:52:23
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Robert Jordan :
Peace and suppression have worn the same face for a very long time, 🔥
2026-07-21 00:21:08
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Generic_Millenial :
sir this is delivered with the cadence of spoken poetry and it's beautiful
2026-07-21 02:57:25
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Dal :
your videos always pop up for me when I need them the most. mom thinks I'm ignoring and disrespecting her when really, I don't know what to say, or what should I say that's acceptable enough for someone who likes to turn every non issue into an issue?
2026-07-20 23:18:37
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░m░a░t░t░e • Friend :
sometimes being the only one to communicate is self sabotage. if it's not reciprocated, it's ok to stop communicating
2026-07-21 00:27:14
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Dominique 🤩 :
I love silence!!!
2026-07-21 02:51:30
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✨SALTY🌻L⭕️VE✨ :
Yeah I’m a person who needs to be silent while emotional. It’s horrible if I speak when upset or really disappointed. It’s protecting everyone involved. I regulate myself first.
2026-07-21 00:36:42
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Lady Esi :
You need communication to navigate the silence
2026-07-21 02:06:26
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lele☺️💛🤨 :
But then communicate you need that space. I have my boyfriend space from seeing me cuz hes going thru something. He hasn’t talked to me since Thursday. Didn’t bother saying he didn’t want to talk either. I will not be reaching out. Because this was his choice. I didn’t do anything. This has to do with stuff from before me.
2026-07-21 13:18:58
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Tab :
let a person chose they own route don’t keep correcting the behavior sometimes they figure it out on they own and if not remove yourself I always be quiet lol
2026-07-20 23:25:43
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Kam🔁 :
i feel it’s all about communication , dont get in a relationship with someone you can’t communicate with
2026-07-20 22:37:32
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uzernm518 :
Currently in a period of silence. They’re in a transition period and I’ve been needing to step back to touch basis with my self, so we agreed to take the month to ourselves. I’ve been good at regulating, but the anxiety crept in, telling me the silence is able to last so long because there’s a lack of care. That anxiety is the exact reason I need to stick to this time apart. I don’t want to project hurt or any skewed feelings on someone who i know does care.
2026-07-21 03:15:56
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Arisu ありす :
I wish one day I can have the privilege to meet a partner that has this level of emotional intelligence
2026-07-20 22:10:36
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“you start negotiating with the last version that hurt you” damn.
2026-07-21 04:02:59
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Erick :
Your videos have opened my eyes, to so many healthy dynamics in my life. Thank you
2026-07-20 22:17:18
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