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Zara :
If they’re a petty bitch I’m gonna be a petty bitch
2026-07-20 22:51:27
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whoissanyaa :
Communication works both ways. Friendship works both ways. If you don’t reach out to me I’ll feel like I shouldn’t reach out to you. And the reverse. Multiple friendships of mine have ended just bc I haven’t reached out to anyone but they also haven’t reached out to me. I’m always the first to reach out, why should I continue if there’s no reciprocation?
2026-07-21 04:13:24
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p.b. :
that's not reciprocation, that's being a terrible friend/partner.
2026-07-22 13:35:59
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Kaiiii :
As a retired people pleaser, consideration and reciprocity is a big deal. I consider everyone before me and yet I don't get the same treatment. I'm supposed to understand, to value the friendship but not the other way around. At the end I realize, I won't put my heart out for those who don't know how to handle it.
2026-07-22 23:25:39
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michelena :
but then i feel bad and im always overly kind
2026-07-20 22:51:04
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Anthony | Future ER Doctor 🩺 :
I'm sorry but I can't reach out every single time
2026-07-22 02:44:04
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Jas🐒 :
lowkey i still be reaching out if they’re distant bc they’re probably going through something
2026-07-21 16:46:12
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Dayna Wurgler :
I’m always too kind I was always left out as a kid and I don’t like anyone else to feel left out I always made the friend groups but I always end up being left out 😔
2026-07-21 12:46:24
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Carl_lewis.27 :
“In a world of eye for an eye everyone is blind”
2026-07-21 21:10:07
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hannie🍥 :
i do this, and i started to realize my "bff" was never doing me any good, so yesterday i told her i don't wanna be friend anymore and i blocked her, and i feel free to
2026-07-21 15:17:48
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S✨️🌊 :
the question is : from where should it start ?
2026-07-22 21:44:45
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Lizzzaaa :
I agree with the this but only at a certain point. I don’t want my friendships dictated on if someone is struggling to reach out or struggling with something like mental health. I don’t want it dictated by some point system. I do this when I am reconsidering a friendship and if the relationship is actually healthy for me or not. I still wish to be a constant in someone’s life if they need me and if I love them and care about them I want to be there for them.
2026-07-21 20:14:30
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hizel1229 :
The art of detachment. Only allow good energy to attach!!
2026-07-21 07:18:34
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3rd :
But if you love me, I WILL LOVE YOU MOREEE, damn it
2026-07-24 02:04:54
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ErickRees :
Same.
2026-07-24 03:28:41
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🦋🍓 :
@Riley: If I’m constantly reaching out but they don’t after a few times, I will stop reaching out because it’s not being reciprocated - thats fair because they’ve been given the opportunity
2026-07-23 18:02:41
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Gina :
Exactly this ❤️
2026-07-23 09:15:41
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Terry neal :
cool
2026-07-22 22:39:36
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marly :
na22 na
2026-07-23 06:29:02
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Sam :
yes.
2026-07-22 17:50:36
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