Alivia Hall | NYC Therapist
Region: US
Monday 20 July 2026 22:46:43 GMT
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grinch_541 :
Pair this with undiagnosed ADHD & autism and you’ve got yourself a real doozie 🫨
2026-07-21 05:05:14
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AK72O :
Let a girl doom scroll in peace 😭
2026-07-21 01:54:48
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Noleease :
It's such a weird feeling because you can't point out anything "traumatic" happening to you, but you still carry a burden with you every day from the experience. Its so invalidating to be hindered by feelings like this, but not being able to verbalise why or how. I got diagnosed with avoidant personality disorder a few years ago and I genuinely can't pinpoint anything spesific that happened to me that would cause it to develop, so I don't feel like I can talk about it with people either.
2026-07-21 12:09:43
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Em_uh_lee :
Hello avoidant attachment
2026-07-21 02:37:41
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Cindy💫 :
Okay now tell me how to heal from that😭😭😭
2026-09-18 16:11:27
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liligege18 :
I have multiple coworkers who know me better than my own family
2026-07-21 01:22:16
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cea2 :
This, and knowing that my emotionally immature parents genuinely did their best and would be totally unequipped to deal with this conversation
2026-07-21 14:25:49
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July (they/them)🍉 :
hey so this is entirely too loud
2026-07-21 21:34:44
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shoekeLady :
I’ve never heard anyone talk about this before. I’m an adult with my own kids now. I KNOW my mom loves me, but doesn’t know me at all. After 50 years of close contact. I don’t think she was known either.
2026-07-21 01:42:58
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Cecilia :
This!! The developmental impacts of this are broad- undoing this damage is crazy hard.
2026-07-21 00:19:31
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Alyssaaaa :
As someone who had “good” parents and couldn’t relate to the usual examples of childhood trauma or neglect, I never fully understood why I felt so messed up…. This is the first explanation that 100% makes sense to me!!
2026-07-21 15:38:42
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Emily Comer29 :
Hold my hand next time god damn
2026-07-21 11:57:58
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Sarah J :
This is something I've been trying to put into words for years. Thank you for sharing.
2026-07-21 01:41:07
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Keeya :
i’ve always felt they loved me but they didn’t SEE me.
2026-07-22 01:31:51
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Bri | aspiring singer & yapper :
THANK YOU! I felt so guilty using labels like “emotionally neglected” as I was loved. Now this term is way more easy on my heart. Not being emotionally known, as such an emotional kid, was still damaging.
2026-07-21 10:40:54
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orchids.budget :
I realised as a kid I was only ever having a surface level relationship with my parents. It hasn't changed into adulthood
2026-07-21 15:48:32
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Giulia Malavasi :
OH MY GOD why is my fyp ATTACKING ME??😩
2026-07-23 23:46:44
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HRC :
This is so real oh my god I’ve never heard of this before
2026-08-15 05:55:01
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Melissa | Come Back :
This is the distinction I needed: I was loved, but I wasn’t emotionally known—and I didn’t have the words to show anyone what was happening inside me. So I became useful, cheerful and easy, then wondered why I felt alone while surrounded by love. You cannot feel fully known through a self you learned to edit. 🤍 thank you for taking the time to share your energy & wisdom with us.
2026-08-17 18:02:38
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guavagoddess :
who doesn’t love ✨Complex PTSD from emotional neglect ✨
2026-07-21 02:32:29
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✨xpertina✨ :
well i wasn’t ready for this unpacking
2026-07-22 18:26:16
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ivy 🪴 :
yeah my parents loved me in theory but not in practice. they lamented about not understanding me, but never tried to understand. my emotional needs were never met until i got away from them and found friends who know and love me at the same time.
2026-07-21 17:17:25
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Wietske :
I grew up with autism and adhd and later in my teens depression. I know my parents love me but they never understood me. So now I’m (emotionally) hyper independent
2026-07-21 14:42:07
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HR Explained :
I’ve said being taken care of isn’t the same as being nurtured and accepted and appreciated.
2026-07-21 02:24:51
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ned143 :
….waitwaitwaitwaitwait
2026-07-21 07:15:52
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