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a_regular_girl :
Disagree. How someone treats strangers is a reflection of core values and their baseline for human decency. Strong reactions towards family is a reflection of someone’s nervous system. Can’t really be compared
2026-07-21 02:03:34
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naeelah ౨ৎ :
Not invalidating you’re point at all but real kindness is shown when you are kind to people who owe you absolutely nothing 😭 there are several different aspects to consider with how you act at home
2026-08-24 19:35:42
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mollyphillips__ :
As a clinical psychologist this isn’t accurate. Negative reactions to family members especially parents is often triggered by nervous system reactions to trauma patterns and people often regress behaviourally with family members. Family homes are rarely a place to grow as individuals in adulthood and that’s where irritability with family comes in. So your point isn’t 100% false but it’s not quite accurate in terms of ‘who you really are.’ When nervous systems can relax that’s where true self comes out.
2026-07-21 16:24:01
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Ka⏳ra :
Idk I treat everyone how they deserve
2026-07-21 04:05:16
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sweetswasabi :
That wasn't a very kind tone there
2026-07-21 02:48:05
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Laura | Healing FA :
Some people survived ‘home’. You’re assuming ‘home’ provided safety for everyone. Respectfully, it did not.
2026-07-21 11:24:59
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𝒦 🪭🐅🌺 :
Horrible take.
2026-07-21 06:52:10
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Potato Mine :
You try living with these people and tell me that again
2026-07-21 16:29:32
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That’s such a stupid take
2026-07-21 18:31:57
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g1837492 :
This take is so off
2026-07-21 04:11:57
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Eddie :
black and white mentality, family isn't always good to you 🧐🤌🤌
2026-07-21 08:04:35
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kp13131313 :
My abusive father was a model citizen in public. He was kind, he was charismatic, he was caring. There was no evidence of that man behind closed doors in my home. That is what she’s talking about
2026-07-21 13:19:10
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lorangecnty :
As a mental health profession, who you are is not, who you are when you are triggered. 😅😅😅 What a dangerous message that has no cultural context
2026-07-21 19:55:00
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m :
no one in the comments understands the point lolll
2026-07-21 17:53:41
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mina :
yeah, no.
2026-07-21 10:19:10
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🐍🐈⬛ 𝒷𝒾𝓉𝒾𝒻𝒻𝓎.˚✨⊹ :
horrible take someone can be unkind to their family because of the trauma and the abuse they have dealt with from people they call their own family... but are kind to friends, strangers and acquaintances
2026-07-21 10:40:52
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revolutionismyname :
I'm not going to be kind to my emotionally abusive mom lmao
2026-07-21 18:15:25
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K. :
Not all of us have kind homes, so how can you expect everyone to be kind inside their homes???
2026-07-21 22:29:07
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selene :
and HOW am I supposed to be kind when I'm constantly being abused by my own family?
2026-07-22 06:07:31
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Tony79 :
Who you mad at?
2026-07-20 23:59:56
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alligoutofthehouse :
“Kindness is who you are when you are triggered” 📣📣 absolute fucking bars
2026-07-20 23:27:50
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A. :
My dad. Perfect outside. At home, we don’t talk to him x
2026-07-21 19:55:56
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neli :
worst take ever. people who live with you will know how to push ur buttons and also have done so several times. hence the reaction. most dont go crazy over one thing but a pattern.
2026-07-22 09:16:04
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gjfj507 :
t’s wrong, because it’s not about faking being kind, it’s about your family triggering you and stressing you out and treating you like shit. I can tell you I’m one of the kindest people you can meet in your life. I’m kind to everyone, even my friends. I’m very positive, but at home I’m always moody because I feel unsafe and stressed because everyone is screaming at me, and I just get affected and want to protect myself, so I start being defensive. But for example, with my only sister that I really feel safe with, I’m very kind
2026-07-21 14:11:44
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