xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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kirstenmariealexander :
My husband has always been the pursuer and he’s the one that got burned out. He up and left us out of nowhere and with no warning, but won’t file for divorce. I’m so confused.
2026-07-22 01:54:49
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J. Hrebinka (Shanahan) :
I'm the burned out pursuer but he thinks he is because he's been pressuring me for sex and I say no 😅
2026-09-13 09:21:02
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Love2Fish.KeepMovingForward. :
how do you take it when your wife filed for divorce. we live separately but still talk regularly still do things together. she tells me she loves me. but she doesn't want to stop the divorce. Im so confused. she also hasn't completed all the paperwork for the divorce.
2026-07-22 10:10:17
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BuddahSauce :
So I went through a health issue right after the birth of my daughter and I've learned that my emotional capacity shrunk over the last few years. My wife finally had enough and has been rightfully distant from me but in the house. I have been thinking that it is the burned out pursuer dynamic. But you saying this makes me realize there is definitely an element of the relationship burnout. I have been frustrated too when it felt like what I was doing wasn't enough and while I do think I went about it terribly I do think I tried to reach out for connection but maybe I just didn't do it enough to register in that way to her. I want to get help for myself to be better but want to make sure I'm on the right path
2026-08-06 18:25:57
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yen :
years ago i ordered a book from a small book shop on the other side of the country. they shipped a different book: Hold Me Tight. . we were on the brink of divorce from half of the patterns in the book, and it changed my entire perspective on the relationship. . unfortunately, my wife never read it. refused to. and 7 years later we are on the brink of divorce again, as she has dug in her heals to avoid facing any of her baggage. insists that her trying to continue all the bad patterns is right and normal, and me refusing to engage in them is toxic, but if she can just get me the right set of supplements, it will fix me. it's a very different pursuer burnout. I'm walking away from her in life, begging her to come with me, and there is only so much reaching back I can do.
2026-07-22 14:48:28
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Heather512 :
I'm the pursuer..he's the avoider. Blaming it on our caregivers bringing us up in what we're used to. I'm over pursuing us solo for conflict repairs, bids of connection, and weekly check ins..after nearly 25 yrs marriage in November.
2026-08-17 06:44:23
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thewillsmall :
We had a relationship burn out but I was still willing to try she said "I just can't" what's the best way forward
2026-07-30 09:43:38
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Matt :
asking for connecting is begging btw. why do people think that works?
2026-09-11 17:10:59
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charityhardwick43 :
me and my partner is getting to this point and I'm scared confused and don't know what to do 😢
2026-09-15 12:44:29
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Jgidds :
What coaching did your husband take? And can I do it too
2026-07-23 13:49:08
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IntrusiveTHOT :
Where do I find more information on the burnout/pursuer dynamic?
2026-08-12 01:29:59
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Kaybaybay_ :
Did you happen to make a back up page? This page just followed me but I’m going to report it if it’s not you.
2026-07-22 16:34:15
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Bastien.aka 🇵🇸 :
hey excuse me I failed to send you a dm to ask you questions, it says it didn't sent and I can't send again
2026-07-22 09:00:46
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Sarah Katherine Atom :
Luckily I don't think your kitty is burning out on pursuing any time soon.
2026-07-22 00:31:25
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