@itstime4me2fly: People often mean well (But not everybody). If there is somebody you care about that has been betrayed one of the best things you could do for them is to offer to listen to them as long as they need someone to hear them. Some of my dearest friends just sat next to me and let me cry. They said nothing… They allowed me to grieve in my own way… for as long as they were needed. ##itstime4me2fly##movingon##affairrecovery##betrayal##betrayaltrauma
The last response would’ve made me laugh. That wouldn’t bother me a bit.
2026-07-23 15:48:25
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sandycay2 :
One of my “best” friends actually said about a month in “I kinda wish my husband would cheat so I could lose weight too” I had not been able to eat for 4 weeks. 135 to 117 was so unhealthy .. not my friend anymore.
2026-07-21 11:59:51
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jdpartyof3 :
I had a wonderful friend say “This is not happening TO you. This is happening FOR you.” She said it over & over during the 3 years from discovery to divorce finality. That statement made me rise up over & over & it kept me looking at all the good that was happening.
2026-07-21 00:59:07
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Tanya :
Personally, it wouldn’t bother me one bit if my friends said any of those things. Different personalities. In their minds, they may have thought their words were supporting you during your pain.
2026-07-28 06:46:47
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Diane sandifer :
Not just your words, but your face! You have grown so much. Baby girl, get ready to GET what you’ve been putting out. Your life it about to explode in the bestest of ways. Don’t get me started on your eyes.
2026-07-22 23:44:18
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Nettepotter5150 :
#1-3 was what I heard over and over and it felt like a knife in the heart every time. It made me feel like they were telling me what an idiot I was and how they all knew it. It was so hurtful and SO not helpful.
2026-07-22 22:56:16
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Coco :
I remember a family member told me I was going to get punished by God for reaching out to him and the other woman.or how I’m shouldn’t be angry my kids are older 16/17/19 mind your business
2026-07-21 04:01:58
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Happy Camper :
Great advice for those of us who don’t know what to say.
2026-07-21 12:15:58
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FlatbedQueen :
That’s exactly what I wanted
2026-07-21 16:10:39
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Pattycakes :
When a friend was going through this I sat in shock with no words I just told her her that her hurt was worse then me loosing my husband to sudden illness who left loving me!! She had to watch the man she loved cheat with another woman…, that was the saddest thing 😢
2026-07-21 02:13:36
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💜🧿myboymystrength🪬👼 :
I got "is now the time to tell you I never liked him". 🤪
2026-07-21 01:35:46
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🌻txgirl29🌻 :
#3 is unbelievable
2026-07-22 22:45:55
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Lisa LeBlanc943 :
great advice
2026-07-30 15:44:29
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TheBigJal :
Simple..."I'm here whenever you need me." Best way to handle that one.
2026-07-21 12:13:13
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irishgingergirl28 :
Thank you!
2026-07-22 04:52:59
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gonny :
Well said
2026-07-21 14:45:45
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SOCIALBUTTERFLY👐 🇨🇦 :
Great advice
2026-07-21 21:39:39
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gonny :
Yes
2026-07-21 14:43:32
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gigi_Chitown_liberal :
The message I received was he was such a great guy and why did I leave him 😳💔
2026-07-21 18:47:23
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Jan041356 :
I’m here to help in any way! Been down this road twice!
2026-07-21 22:31:06
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lindalou314 :
It sure is amazing what people can say huh? GEee
2026-08-16 14:22:21
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AdirondackNY :
those messages are so hurtful
2026-07-26 23:17:54
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golfergirl84 :
Great advice! 🫶
2026-08-06 17:28:30
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JustBonnieWillDo :
“Yes I had my suspicions.” WTH!
2026-07-23 00:31:21
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🦋 Miami 🦋 :
yes
2026-07-31 19:29:14
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