@hergoddessmindset: Getting the closure I never received. #dismissiveavoidant #toxicrelationship #loveletter

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xvqi42
sl0ppypancake :
dear fyp: send this to him not meeeee
2026-08-12 15:40:37
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michaelainrecovery
Michaela Babineau :
Uhhh send this to her 😒
2026-08-11 19:35:19
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colely.89
Lydia :
It’s insane how they are literally alllllll the same!!!
2026-07-21 03:58:02
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ladyk7924
Koda :
First you get the narcissist then you get the avoidant and then you will find someone will love you
2026-07-21 03:24:37
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xlimpinx
xlimpinx :
I’m convinced that avoidants are just narcissists in training. She was exactly like this. 3 years wasted. She’s just like her mom and I was played and fooled.
2026-07-21 18:49:32
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vegalee2
Vega lee :
My avoidant is very very lucky that it's laws out here
2026-07-21 19:40:47
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thesuperann
Ann Tastic :
that sounds like a narcissist, avoidants get overwhelmed and struggle but they aren't necessarily cruel or manipulative. narcissists are manipulative and consistent victims, part of the mental illness.
2026-07-21 02:27:48
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sashi1214_
Sash1214 :
They are Monsters
2026-07-21 14:14:00
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telekenieceis
telekenieceis :
We all dated the same person
2026-07-22 21:12:53
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bonnboyd
Bonn :
yup 💯 people like that have a special place in hell
2026-07-22 01:54:46
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krypticrambo
Trevor Cordonnier :
2 in a row for me, even married one of them. I quit
2026-07-31 03:27:59
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cas_lys
Cas :
It’s F him but I like his family 😂 his mom and sister are the only way I get to see my puppy 🥺
2026-07-22 21:28:54
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lysa7373
lysa7373 :
I felt this so hard. I felt like someone reached into my brain and pulled out exactly how I feel moving forward from my asshole ex
2026-07-21 03:23:18
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jennifertucker919
jennifertucker919 :
felt this so hard
2026-07-25 02:28:59
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mrslips68
Ms.Lips68 :
AMEN sister!!!!
2026-07-23 07:49:43
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xsimply_shannonx
✨𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐍𝐍𝐎𝐍✨ :
ACTIONS OVER WORDS 👏🏻
2026-07-25 03:42:35
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mamacasser
Cass :
Yep …
2026-07-25 17:06:40
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nubulastar420
NubulaStar420 :
I wanted to cry listening to this because I felt it, I'm currently going through the healing aspect of this very situation and trying to put together the shattered remains he left me with
2026-07-21 21:28:20
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mustangsal2012
Sally :
🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️. And that’s exactly what mine is doing to me. I was a sugar momma.
2026-07-28 11:59:54
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whodoyouthinkitis111
WhoDoYouThinkItIs111 :
She played me! I still love her and want her back even though I see all the toxicity!
2026-07-22 10:00:27
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glass_of_whiskey46
Brett Frechette :
Trust me, they live in their own hell an anxious attachment that was once secure. The first one was a dismissive avoidant that completely gave me broken heart syndrome, which was a minor heart attack in the second one she got pregnant found out she was a fearful avoidant had a abortion broke up with me over text message a week later because her mommy is in her ear. Trust me my whole nervous system is completely shot. All I have is my job in my guitar and empty house to come home to every night. You just have to get past it & time is the ultimate healer.
2026-07-22 06:29:08
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tammyhook1971
Tammy Deibert :
100% it's creepy to think so many of us have the same story!
2026-07-22 23:02:12
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cristinanaomi808
cristinanaomi808 :
You just said the last 7.5 years of my life! They seem to be all the same. I will file for divorce and move on.. My husband is a great actor, his victimhood is everything to him and I guess he made his psycho mommy proud!!!
2026-07-25 03:36:39
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natasha_smith24
Natasha Smith :
Yes 🙌 queen 👸 let it because your speaking truth! U and me both girl !
2026-07-23 00:30:37
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alitos777
Alex :
I told my therapist I was afraid to leave bc I would lose it all. He told me “your fear of abandonment told you that, but look at all that you have gained. Now that you’re not trying to fix her you can fix yourself and truly focus on you and your kids” and so true.
2026-07-22 04:47:02
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