@heathervansant: We should start a list of things NOT to do or say to someone who is going through infertility… I’ll go first: Don’t hide your pregnancy from the friend who is going through infertility. She’s going to find out eventually and I promise it’s going to hurt worse knowing you purposely hid it from her. #infertility #ttc #ttcjourney #infertilityjourney #miscarriage
Yessss this. Like I’m a big girl and will take care of myself, let me be happy for you and deal with my own feelings myself
2026-07-23 12:45:56
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knb1993 :
Hurts more that people are “uncomfortable” with sharing than them actually telling you. I don’t need to be guarded, I need to be considered. Heartbreaking, been there.
2026-07-23 02:25:41
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Cari(car-ee) :
I never thought of it like this❤️like people think they’re keeping you “safe” by not telling you but in reality they’re singling you out by doing just that. Ugh! 🤍
2026-07-21 02:28:41
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P A I G E :
See that’s so odd to me, my husband’s cousin was one of the first people we told so that it wasn’t coming from another family member or her seeing it on socials! I’m so sorry, sending you hugs! 🤍
2026-07-21 02:46:17
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Bri Logan 🦋🌱 :
I struggle with infertility & my sister has 4 kids. I’m so thankful I’m the first person who knew with each and every one of them 🥺
2026-07-22 12:59:16
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Leatasha :
Heather, till this day I am still praying and believing in your miracle baby- God has not forgotten 💕praying for you my friend 🙌🏽🙏🏽
2026-07-22 19:28:13
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Megan Collins :
Girl you hid my pregnancy from me 😂😂😂 I love you so so much Heather, I’m always thinking of you💕
2026-07-21 10:15:46
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🥰 :
sending you hugs love
2026-07-21 02:36:14
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Sav :
🥺🤍🫶🏻
2026-07-21 02:32:37
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tonihamilton :
🥺🙏🤍
2026-07-21 11:58:24
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