@anxiouslyalej: Overfunctioning does not raise his standard, it becomes his baseline, and the version of the relationship you accept today as it stands is the version he believes you are satisfied with. Effort is not what inspires a man to give you more standards, boundaries and guaranteed consequences are. #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingadvice #datingforwomen #avoidantattachment

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user3033587413264 :
After having 2 kids I definitely do less, I don’t cook every day like I used to, have a housecleaner, and a babysitter
2026-08-18 07:29:41
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user936682841
Pawpaw :
Nah I did less he did lesser. I left
2026-07-21 10:41:47
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_moon_water
_moon_water :
Married 14 years I've never once done his laundry and I won't cook unless I'm eating ....I'm not his mommy.
2026-07-21 15:03:35
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appleuser63727395
Hope Era :
I disagree. Relationships aren’t games where you do less to get more. Healthy relationships are built on mutual love, effort, and reciprocity - not keeping score.
2026-07-21 17:59:53
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classicinteriordesign
💕💓Hear me out ok💓💕 :
Sprinkle sprinkle. I sleep in until 1 PM every day and I wake up and my husband brings me lunch. I’m not joking.
2026-07-21 06:09:25
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mindfulmuslimpress
Mindful Muslim Press :
Indeed!
2026-08-16 19:53:05
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highheelgirl_1
HighHeelGirl :
Never do wifey duties as a girlfriend...!
2026-07-22 02:30:30
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unmundoparaclau
>claUdia< :
Yas, that’s me. 14 years of marriage and a 4 year old son, I have never clean, cook, do laundry, nothing. My husband pays for a housekeeper and a nanny, and me? I’m working remote and doing my nails and having trips with my son ❤️
2026-07-21 19:48:35
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shehnaz.ahmad
shehnaz ahmad :
I am 50. My husband he actually in the kitchen as right now making ne breakfast while Im laying in bed scrolling on social media 🥰 been this way close to 18 years. Every Sunday he buy me flowers, give me spending money and He pay all bills.
2026-07-22 09:12:27
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rainbow202027
Marty :
Once you do something for a man, they will resent you for it.
2026-07-23 13:10:00
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emmaava76
Emma Ava :
"if she is doing this for me, I must deserve it"...hits the nail on the head
2026-07-21 02:39:30
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thefemininefairy
the feminine fairy 💋 :
This is why you cannot fix or change a man. You are doing tooooo much for him
2026-07-21 06:18:59
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tracinicoleprice
Traci Nicole Price ᵕ̈ :
Not true in my case. I stopped doing anything for him and he still treats me like shit half the time. 😂 name calling, no hugs or kisses, no cuddles, no money, just buys me food and later throws it in my face that he’d like to know how much money I’ve eaten of his. Sooo where do I find a guy that spoils me? 😂
2026-07-21 13:06:59
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aliciabonitachiq
aliciabonitachiq :
I do sooo much for my husband and so does he for me. Ours is a mutually beneficial relationship. He makes sure all of my needs and most of my wants (if not all) are met and then some because he knows that i am also here for him foreseeing anything him and our daughters might need is also being fulfilled. I live by this, True Love Isn't something you suddenly find in someone, True Love is Built when you find someone willing to always be going the extra mile for you and when he knows that love and care is reciprocal. ❤️
2026-07-22 23:52:25
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isvarim
Isvari Maranwe :
Girls, I don't even not do his laundry ever, I don't do LAUNDRY ever. He does all my laundry, all the grocery shopping, taking care of the dog...I don't even make tea. And yes, he takes care of all the finances too. People make fun of me for being a primadonna/princess all the time. This video is 100% right.
2026-07-22 14:32:25
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mellicents
Mellicent :
LESS IS MORE!!!🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
2026-07-21 06:26:57
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dangernoodle29
Dangernoodle Jones :
I just wish people were honest and it wasn’t a huge game of who manipulates who better.
2026-07-22 15:33:57
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tracietracietraci
TracieTracieTracie :
If you don’t see your own value, how can anyone else?
2026-07-21 18:36:31
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mericafirstyall
❌MericaFirstYall2.0❌ :
I seriously hate this divide. If you love your man, you shouldn't be expecting princess treatment. If he doesn't treat you with the same standard at which you love him, you move on. The games need to stop.
2026-07-22 02:15:55
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as_sarah_sees_it
As_Sarah_Sees_It :
How do we teach our daughters to demand more?
2026-07-22 00:58:47
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roxxyjam
Roxy :
I’m not doing nothing anymore stopped cooking and don’t cleanup his mess or put away his laundry. He’s an adult
2026-07-21 16:58:24
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veenarajee
ReleasebyVR |Trauma Healing :
It’s really not about doing less or more. It comes down to our ability to feel safe about receiving. Most women don’t feel safe to receive because there were always caveats. Women were historically expected to keep giving more while putting themselves last.
2026-07-21 14:36:17
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user2841614851727
NanaSunflower :
My husband caters and pampers me and I don’t overdo the wifey duties and yes you are right,he tells me I am not his maid,I am his wife and he cooks and cleans and washes,don’t get me wrong I do those things too,but I don’t overly do them. He treats me like a queen
2026-07-21 03:49:35
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anthrogirl26
Jackie 🙋🏼‍♀️♏️ :
we could be meaner
2026-07-21 10:51:14
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mvenegas79
mvenegas79 :
Married for 27 and we each do our part. He cooks l do the dishes, marriage is a partnership. There is no I do more than you. We help each other out. That’s how it’s supposed to be.
2026-07-21 15:18:43
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