You're better off without them. They are horrible people.
2026-07-21 21:17:01
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Khyra Perez :
Avoidants are not horrible people. They’ve been hurt, they are scared, the trauma is hard to get out of once you keep on getting the same patterns from your partner as before. It’s not the best, but it’s basically a self mechanism. And before you “then you shouldn’t get in a relationship” why? Because you’re anxious and need answers now? Some people need time to process and think, that doesn’t mean the loving and missing is not there.
2026-07-22 11:14:22
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Silvernova115 :
they never face this. they make up their own lies to justify their abandonment
2026-07-21 17:27:08
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𝓢𝓸𝓻𝓲𝓪𝓷𝓸.💫 :
I almost never opened The Timeless Principles of Life by Aaron Friedman and honestly that thought alone stresses me out now.
2026-07-28 18:06:18
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Dallas :
So she’s gonna text me to break no contact?
2026-07-31 03:08:50
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nikolaii_0♱ :
Avoidants are selfish and immature people that will put themselves over you when they feel overwhelmed by the relationship, they will treat you like they were never in love with you and replace you with new people, relationships or even being friends with their other ex's. And finally when they have another connection to go with, they will just abandon you with all the questions that you had and with all the pain that you will need to endure alone because they are that coward that they will not confront what they've done to you and will evade having a mature conversation about why they've done that to you.
Don't expect that person to receive karma for what they did to you; the worst punishment they can receive is already upon them, and that's living that way and being unable to change it no matter how much they want to. That's their real punishment
Thank God I got rid of my avoidant ex from my life forever. Since I blocked her and haven't heard from her again, my life has improved in every possible way. Thank God I recovered myself.
2026-07-23 09:38:48
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Blue :
Avoidants fall out of love within the time of the separation so they don’t come back or they’ll make you out to be the horrible person just move on
2026-07-31 07:44:13
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𝓡𝔂𝓷 ♱ :
Sure fucking hope so bro, I really want my baby back
2026-07-21 21:18:43
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Distain :
So we're not gonna talk about the instant replacement? 😗
2026-07-21 21:19:28
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_jones11 :
And then they come back, they get the same overwhelming feeling back again when y’all try again and it’s a repeated cycle GGS
2026-07-21 07:34:03
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TheEclecticWitch :
my avoidant has a week to figure us and herself out , otherwise im out im done
2026-07-23 02:28:28
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. :
They always comeback
2026-07-21 12:06:10
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TLM.v2 :
*when their options don't work out
2026-07-21 14:28:50
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_.makalaaa :
Avoidant here.We suck and we’re difficult but that doesn’t mean we aren’t trying.We really do hate ourselves for the hurt we cause but we don’t even know how to process it until the bed has been empty for days.Anxious people shouldn’t hate us but I understand.I was an anxious for so long and one day it snapped and re wired my brain.Its a survival mechanism.I hope we all heal and get the people we love back or understand we’re deserving of the love we crave.
2026-07-25 05:16:19
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🎱🍒TattoosTurquoiseTrucks🏁🩵 :
theyre just master manipulators!
2026-07-21 05:50:49
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Lettyedwards :
After multiple discards I left him and blocked him. He’s tried to come back with the normal bread crumbs no apology or accountability. I am detached now it was the best decision I ever made very painful experience also took me a long time to get there. Now I have found me again my peace is absolute gold. Pls don’t let these fools back in your life they will waste your time your precious life’s these people do not have the emotional capacity to be in a long term relationship. Love yourself fully never lower your standards. 💯🥰
2026-07-21 09:10:22
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Smurf :
They come back to make sure I’m not moving on, just a back up plan
2026-07-23 09:02:46
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Gina Basile :
Trust me they never come back. Don’t hold your breath and if they do they’ll throw you away again.
2026-07-21 21:36:23
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Chris :
They come back too late. I’m already moving on
2026-07-23 10:35:32
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⃟ :
she never needed space, she was js bored at being serious
2026-07-21 16:32:25
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PJS :
Who cares? They are dead to me. LOL
2026-07-22 14:54:22
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🅰️🅰️Ⓜ️Victor🅰️🅰️Ⓜ️ :
Mine had me blocked. I left a message for my own closure and she contacted me today. Surprisingly she was sincere about her apology. I told her I still loved her but I had to focus on me. I told her she has to heal and I need to too. If it is meant to be than God will see us back together healthier. I prayed to God about all of this before it happened and he answered. 🙏
2026-07-21 07:15:07
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💫 :
is it bad that I texted her a month later saying that if she doesn’t want to talk now it’s okay but when whenever she feels ready we can talk. She struggles really badly with social anxiety and has spent years isolated but I think I was the one person that was actually able to get through to her based on some of the things she said but when we started to actually get really close she went from asking me to do things with her all the time to ghosting me overnight and I really doubt that she just stopped caring I really think it has to do with her own internal struggles but I do miss talking to her.
2026-07-21 04:28:38
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