@sabfortony: dating as a widow has brought out so many feelings of guilt, unfaithfulness, insecurities, shame, bitterness, the list goes on. but one thing i’ve found helpful is to speak these thoughts out, and i’ve been met with so much grace and kindness, which has helped me to be more gracious to myself. this was a really hard conversation but also something i wanted to do even for my sake. tony knows, and i believe he understands and is ultimately rooting for me to find whatever i’m looking and hoping for in this lifetime because that’s what it means for him to continue loving me while he’s not physically here. dating again as someone who lost a partner isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. it’s something that i’m trying so i can see if this is what i want. sending love to anyone who may be going through a similar journey, and if this helps anyone face the complex thoughts around dating after loss, then that’s wonderful. you are not alone, we are all trying to navigate a life that is far from ideal and what we once hoped for. so be kind to yourself. 💗 love is such a gift in this lifetime, and i am so lucky to have experienced great love with tony. all i know is that i have so much love to give, and i will forever love tony. if i get to experience another great love, that’s wonderful. and if i don’t, then i think that’s okay too. #grief #datingasawidow #dating #griefandloss #widow
Sabrina 🫶🏼 life after loss
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Tuesday 21 July 2026 02:58:52 GMT
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Reneggsmee :
He knows 🩷
2026-07-21 05:16:12
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N🌺🇵🇭 🩺 :
Make sure the guy will always understand your visit of your husband grave
2026-07-21 06:33:49
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_your_therapist_ :
He’s not upset. He’s past those types of emotions now.
2026-07-21 03:52:08
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Toxic_killer420 :
looks like a little hand reaching out to you 🥺
2026-07-21 21:08:19
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Tiffany Wright :
my mom and her boyfriend both lost spouses. they celebrate their past loved ones birthdays, anniversaries, etc together. I love it. 🥰 I hope you can find the same.
2026-07-21 13:57:53
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ℭ𝔥𝔯𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔫𝔞. 🩸 :
he's not upset, he's so so proud of you.
2026-07-21 09:47:29
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Skirt_Cobain :
We wish my brothers widow would start to date again after 8 years. We want her to find a new happiness.
2026-07-21 16:26:30
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katie<3 :
oh baby there is a heart formed around your head. he hears you and understands you. do not feel guilty, he wants you to be happy. one day at a time. i am proud of you!!!
2026-07-21 06:43:39
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Asha ♡ :
I don’t think he’s upset 🤍
2026-07-21 23:13:45
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Grace Sim :
Tony is so proud of you for taking care of yourself 🧡
2026-07-21 03:13:39
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John Brown (not the cool one) :
If my wife wanted to date after I’m gone and I’m sure I’ll be gone first so this will likely occur, if he treats her the way she deserves then wholeheartedly support that. I’m gone. You shouldn’t die with me when you have love yet to give.
2026-07-22 14:17:18
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★ Jean ★ :
I just know all he wants is for u to be happy 🥹😭🤍🤍🤍
2026-07-21 03:54:59
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chnandez06 :
I’ve seen two videos of you visiting his grave, in both videos I’ve always seen a heart in the sky. I truly think he understands and wants to see you happy. I wish nothing but happiness for you!❤️
2026-07-21 03:36:27
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Joe Kennison :
Why is this video blurry? 😭😭
2026-07-22 14:30:51
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sunoo niki jungwon. engene. :
awe girl. im so sorry i hope you get better. its not easy losing someone🥺
2026-07-22 13:57:36
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Sleepy guy :
My wife is allowed to date if I pass. I however I am not.
2026-07-21 10:24:10
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𝐀𝐮𝐤𝐞 :
Dont feel guilty, he wants you to be happy and you deserve love! 💞
2026-07-21 03:07:13
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nikotinekillz :
i found your account when you ate the last of your husband’s curry from the freezer. you’ve come so far and i know he’s so happy and proud of you!! thank you for sharing his story, your story, and your life with us!!
2026-07-22 06:00:13
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Nat :
Look for signs, he will guide you to the right person ❤️
2026-07-21 15:10:34
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Tmomma :
He died at 25. I was 23… that’s a long sad life to live alone. With just my child who was a literal baby when he passed away. My current significant other hung a picture of my son and his father in his bedroom. My son says he has 2 dads. His dad in the sky and his dad. He sits on the wall in my current significant other and I’s house. The right person will accept you for you and your grief and your pain, your sadness. ❤️🩹
2026-07-22 14:25:52
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🎀 Jessica 🎀 :
Oh baby he knows and I’m sure he wants nothing more then for you to be happy
2026-07-21 06:08:32
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