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Tuesday 21 July 2026 03:45:28 GMT
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Kris Stacey :
As a therapist myself I thought I could handle his BPD and extreme ADHD. After 9 years I was done. It’s abuse.
2026-07-22 16:00:18
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antonio.ortiz :
I have BPD. Just walk away. We are too much…I’m not even joking. He’s spot on!
2026-07-22 17:03:08
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Mercy :
My ex had borderline personality disorder, and it was the most draining, stressful, and emotionally exhausting relationship I’ve ever been in. The constant accusations, gaslighting, verbal abuse, and feeling like I had to walk on eggshells every day took a huge toll on me. No matter how much reassurance I gave, it was never enough. I couldn’t even spend time with old friends without it turning into conflict. The hardest part was feeling like my perspective never mattered. I often felt blamed for everything while she saw herself as the innocent one. I couldn't do it no more.
2026-07-22 21:20:09
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Daisies🌼 :
most of these comments weren't dating people with bpd, they were dating abusers who mightve also had bpd. bad people hurt you, bad people say mean things. bpd makes you feel everything at 100%. I have never said mean things to people i date, I have never wanted or try to hurt them. I cry and get frustrated and and hard on myself but never them
2026-09-01 09:16:55
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Disco :
My girlfriend has bpd and we went from 6 months of amazing love to her needing space and now almost a week later she’s saying she can’t do it anymore because we’re long distance. Were supposed to talk about it tonight and I’m scared because I do not want to lose her
2026-07-23 18:19:51
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Lyndsay Honaker :
there's nobody more mad at me than I am at myself. to be aware of my behavior and STILL repeat it, is maddening.
2026-08-01 21:44:30
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Crissi :
we are best off alone sadly
2026-08-16 18:49:38
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J Berry :
My 13yo has bpd symptoms. I’m so scared
2026-07-30 04:47:05
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bigswede777 :
The problem is that people that are borderline mostly will not admit that their borderline or that their doing the things that they’re doing. They’re way too obsessed with what they perceive everybody is doing to them.
2026-07-22 15:57:29
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jeanzwahr :
DBT therapy
2026-07-23 19:31:03
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BattyLuv :
okay, but how do you change it. because I am tired of fighting with myself. yes, I am in therapy and try to be self aware. I just dont know what else to do. I just feel like a bad person all the time.
2026-07-30 03:39:52
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Rachel (Boo) :
I had undiagnosed BPD for years and when I was finally diagnosed it was like a fog lifted. I’m a very self aware person, but for some reason this was the mental illness that stumped me. Once I knew I had it I made it my mission to work on myself, learn everything about it I could, and educate those around me. Unfortunately this hasn’t even been enough and I’m currently in the process of seeking BPD therapy to help me along further. I realize what I am. I realize the harm I cause. And I will stop at nothing to defeat it and allow happiness and peace into my life. This illness is hell on earth and the worst part is I just want people to give me grace. But I know if the roles were reversed, idk if I’d be able to give grace. That’s what makes it so difficult I think. I know how horrible it makes me. I just can’t stop it. Hopefully the DBT will finally help.
2026-07-23 10:54:18
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Sapphic Sagittarius :
If they can recognize it, acknowledge what they did hurts, I think it’s possible to be with them.
2026-07-22 17:33:34
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neivius11 :
if you are dating someone whom you suspect to have BPD, you better be damn sure that it isn't actually NPD or ASPD. otherwise you are setting yourself up for endless abuse. and when I say sure, I mean stepping back, taking a hard look at them objectively and being 100% sure.
2026-07-23 22:35:00
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Jesykah Garcia :
Yea I’m tired of being told I’m manipulating when honestly I hate having BPD. It’s so hard. Every thing feels so much. I highly recommend DBT for BPD. I miss it because since my daughter left for the army I’ve just been a mess. I feel like I’m back to square one in my journey. I hate being BPD
2026-07-23 03:11:56
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Ashley :
Being late diagnosed with a history of failed friendships, jobs, relationships.. it felt like bittersweet relief
2026-07-23 14:06:10
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AM2PM :
I noticed similar traits with INFJ personalities.
2026-07-23 11:39:25
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🫧🩺 :
I end my relationship every month 😭 no matter how much I push away my partner he refuses to leave. I hate that Im this way it’s so miserable. And I hurt so many people. But I finally just got diagnosed w/ BPD this week. I’ll be starting DBT soon.
2026-07-23 06:45:28
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ShesMajickal🌈🌈🌈 :
I know i was her favorite person but she did me so wrong. i wasnt prepared to deal with that
2026-08-06 00:32:06
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fatehyxx :
I’m in therapy , taking medications, all in all seeking help , but I’m not getting better , matter of fact for months now I’ve been struggling more by the day , I’m in a relationship and I keep seeing how much I keep self sabotaging things.
2026-07-27 04:33:05
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uno22826 :
My bpd hubby cheated on me after 30 years. I sold by his sides after all his episodes. Im out
2026-07-22 02:57:16
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Rayne :
I wish I knew why I don’t want to lose a narcissistic alcoholic
2026-07-27 15:45:51
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Jodi 🎀 :
this is SO accurate
2026-07-28 21:16:20
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