@comfortlevelpodcast: AITA For Refusing To Make My Mom's Birthday Dinner After My Family Called It "Our Tradition" #aitareddit #redditstoriestok #podcastclip #aita #fyp
Last year I ordered EVERYONES Christmas gift. My parents just sent me links to get on their card for everyone. * even wrapped everyone's gifts. What did I get? A blanket, in my often vocalized least favorite color when I have dozens of blankets. This year I'm telling everyone at Thanksgiving that I'm going on a solo vacation (My son is in college and going on a trip of his own) and will not be handling anything related to Christmas and to not get me anything, I'm gifting myself my peace.
2026-07-23 20:19:35
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IG: @adorble_nee :
NTA they got used to not pitching in at all
2026-07-23 17:14:42
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staciestacy1981 :
My family refuses to leave someone’s house without all the dishes clean. Who raised these people?
2026-07-24 00:55:47
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MsTee :
NTA. The mom should have acknowledged all that the daughter had done and been grateful that the daughter did as much as she did.
2026-07-23 18:36:30
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thebeeskneesreads2.0 :
I couldn't imagine sitting on my ass while one person does all the work what is wrong with people
2026-07-23 21:36:04
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Éclaircissement :
A tradition means everyone involved is doing what it takes to make sure it continues. Coming together to celebrate is the tradition - free labor is not😳
2026-07-23 17:44:33
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vandapereira50 :
Absolutely not!!!!
2026-07-24 08:11:04
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Jean Mueller :
NTA
2026-07-24 05:42:53
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PSiTH :
Also I’d tell everyone that the brother insisted on hosting and you think that’s how he shows his love.
2026-07-24 06:25:24
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Ciara 🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩 :
NTA, if they wanted to keep up the tradition they could’ve stepped up and worked together to do what OP did by herself.
2026-07-23 17:16:45
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CatsandBooks 🆘 🇺🇸 :
I can’t imagine not helping! I would tell them it’s now potluck in the expectation is that help.
2026-07-23 23:31:49
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Jennifer :
Nope, carry on and let someone else do it . Maybe just take your mom to lunch and make it special for the two of you
2026-07-24 03:50:01
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JoBell :
They are embarrassing themselves by not offering to help
2026-07-23 17:54:13
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SpaceGoatToasttheToast :
yeahhhhh her family sucks
2026-07-23 18:50:44
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07734 :
Yall said OUR … if it’s a together thing why are yall looking at me im just one person
2026-07-23 19:43:42
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Whiskas 🇨🇦 :
Did OP ask for help before declining to host? NTA but perhaps if she had asked for others to pitch in more they wouldn't have had to cancel
2026-07-23 19:26:30
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Michelle :
People don't know what to do when others start setting boundaries.
2026-07-23 20:59:47
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siksikaitsitapi :
nta to have boundaries against gendered expectations
2026-07-24 01:00:55
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whitnicoleman :
NTA!! if your house is being used (that's your contribution) then someone else brings food that's fair.
2026-07-23 17:55:12
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ooonurse :
Never do anything for them again
2026-07-23 21:59:46
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ColdMagnet :
They are clearly the a-holes but did you explicitly ask people for help? That way, you cover all your bases and people learn to see how much goes into it
2026-07-23 23:08:28
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carriesuttonritch :
I feel this so much! You are NTA! Way to stick up for yourself!!!
2026-07-23 19:13:58
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suewoogso :
Set your boundaries now 🙌
2026-07-23 23:45:02
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reens1999 :
This reminds me of how I use to cook thanksgiving for my family by myself!! Hell nahhhh
2026-07-23 23:29:07
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Sara Gene Rhodes :
NTA
2026-07-24 02:17:22
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