iapologizeguys :
Peter…listen man, I understand that in the moment those close to us whether it be our friends or loved ones, can seemingly be obnoxious or “lame” however it’s important to remember that communication is important, rather than making rash decisions based off of a bad one liner that you didn’t like, it’s much better to properly communicate and inform them of whatever it is you find off putting, not as a means of slander or to insult them, but as a means to improve them as a person. I am all for constructive criticism and some what brutally honest friendship however these only work when everyone is willing to communicate so that you can all improve each other together, collectively as a whole, rather than people just bottling everything up and building up this secret animosity that might go unnoticed even to the wielder, actions speak louder than words so they might find themselves making irrational decisions that could jeopardize your friendship. Although I don’t hate you for this, as I understand nobody is perfect, I also don’t respect you as much anymore, but that’s okay. I’m not writing this as a means to insult you or paint you out to be some big mean villain however I ask that you take this in a good light and genuinely reflect on yourself, think about this in a broader sense, imagine you said something like this that your friends didn’t like and they just turned you into a social outcast and embarrassed you, I bet it wouldn’t feel too good❤️🩹 much love regardless bro. Remember who we are is not set in stone, you can change in the snap of a finger if you so will it, you might seem the same to others when deciding to change however don’t let them push their projections of how they see you, onto you, you know who you are and who you want to be so don’t let them weight you down with your past.
2026-07-24 15:17:28