@jadastoptopsecret: but like i don’t want to be the only one who cares

jordan :

same and thats why i have no friends

gigi⭐️ :

cus if they reach out that means for SURE they wanted to but if i do idk if they really wanted me. bad way to think but that’s me

KristianBenton :

Just randomly send a message once in a great while. You have to start the conversation sometimes too. If they don’t respond or don’t ever say hi to you first either they may be like you and just not good at reaching out… or they might not care how you’re doing.

⚢ :

as the person who‘s always reaching out first, don’t be surprised when they stop asking

eric :

The one person I did reach out to wont do the same anymore

Spenser cooper :

I do it on purpose, phone works both ways

Jay :

That's why it's actually awesome if you can bond with a 50/50 type deal.

Kyle Koenig :

That’s called pride

Ashley :

me too bc I ain’t gonna subject myself to a one sided friendship

GiffordAxton :

i feel that, its exhausting always being the one to put in effort

faeaeri :

𝓂𝒶𝓎𝒶𝑔𝓇𝒶𝒸𝑒 :

everytime I text they’re busy and then I’m embarrassed and I don’t wanna do it again

Огузок :

elisa 😚 :

I can only reach out so many times at some point I gotta stand up

Tony :

Don't we all my phone only rings when people need my to rectify situations in the Grey area of life cause that what I was trained to do since the age of 9, I'm Sicilian and apparently that's all I good for fixing problems

chichiJR100%⭐️🥷⭐️ :

Hi 👋 😁🥰🥺🥺

Douglas Allen marbaugh :

smile please my friend

Brandon :

Normal and it’s ok. When you do reach out, it’s more special. Keep doing you.

solecitta :

made my first outgoing call to my aunt to see if i can go visit her in cali. asked her what she was doing. “oh nothing honey just at a funeral what’s up” NEVER. MIND. NEVER. AGAIN.

richtyger :

uh huh

uglyfrog04 :

yea same here

IamTheBurgerMeister :

if you're neuro divergent that's a very common characteristic.

𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒂𝄞ೃ࿔*:･ :

when i do reach out i regret it tho lowkey

utkimnh043 :

felt this so hard, its exhausting always being the one to initiate