@westonelit: And then when you talk to them about this or try to understand your perspective they don’t know what you mean 😭 as with every single piece of information on the internet, this isn’t representative of all neurodivergent/autistic/adhd people or neurotypicals. And this is not a diagnosis or saying you have it, as autism is ever complex. I usually think it’s implied but wanted to say #adultautism #audhdtok #neurodivergenttiktok #neurodivergent #neurospicy
If I’ve learned anything in life, it is that being a good person does absolutely nothing for you to get ahead. It’s the demons and narcissists that are having the time of their lives
2026-07-21 10:43:44
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Kaleigh 🌻 :
I was 35 when I learned people lie on their résumés and get better paying jobs 🫠 I didn’t know that was an option but it made a lot of stuff make sense lmao
2026-07-21 11:14:41
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Emily Marie :
Oh and you're not actually supposed to fix problems with people directly, instead you're supposed to talk behind their backs and secretly oppose them! If you do try to be open and fix the problem then you're just being "aggressive"
2026-07-21 11:16:07
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ULTRA ZINO. :
if you ever break a rule then you become a scapegoat for everyone that's ever broken a rule and you'll most likely get caught because someone else that's breaking said rule will snitch on you 👎🏿
2026-07-22 05:47:03
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✨AprilKameelah✨🇵🇷🍃💨 :
This hit very close to home. I am 40 years old and have struggled with this my entire life. I have avoided many things and people because I wasn't 100% that I could show up as I'm expected to...I have burnt myself out of work because it was so important to me to do things the right way from beginning to end and when I mess up or take too long with something because I'm trying to ensure there was not one detail that I missed, I spiral into fault, guilt, frustration, imposter syndrome and self deprecation.
2026-07-21 20:21:57
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💙Puck Bunny💛 :
But if we don’t, then it a problem. We are not allowed to bend/break the rules despite them being able too. The moment we do, it’s a problem
2026-07-21 12:52:14
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Thad :
we will always care what they think, you know
2026-07-21 10:13:57
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Authentically Amber :
I realized this a couple of years ago. I still follow rules LMAO
2026-07-21 20:52:15
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🍒 :
When I try to break rules I don’t get away with it lol I’m immediately targeted
2026-07-21 14:58:18
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V3NUSD3ATHTRAP1111 :
Everyone else is allowed to break them and I don’t understand why
2026-07-21 14:24:02
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Nac2 :
That’s so true!!!
2026-07-22 02:30:05
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Fungi375 :
"oh you didnt have to do all that, we streamlined things!"
2026-07-21 17:34:11
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rachtigs :
unfortunately I started breaking the rules and it’s been nothing but good for me :(
2026-07-21 15:26:46
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thegreateststoryevertold :
dude you are spot on we have to create our own world we are the geniuses the superhumans it's time for us to come together.
2026-07-21 12:24:20
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user216893909818262 :
but if we break a rule… 😱
2026-07-21 13:02:40
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Minkan :
Creating ones own job is truly awesome. I've done it and it was the best job I've ever had. However the parasitical system is soul crushing. 😳 Always there are much larger corporations writing your rules backed by state violence whenever you can't understand their complicated rules or afford to comply with their unfair advantage.
2026-07-21 10:47:04
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Tia Maria :
Then when u break the same ones everyone else you get the book thrown at u and made to feel like ur a disgusting evil person.
2026-07-21 11:54:01
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auntkate888 :
rules designed to hold us back/slow us down. cheaters win. rigged games. eff it. i'm out.
2026-07-21 12:56:44
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aquatofauna :
It’s so weird. I literally had that thought right before I scrolled down to this video. It’s exhausting & then still having the urge to be a good person despite it all :/
2026-07-21 11:13:56
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Clown w/a tear away face :
I only follow the rules that makes sense. If it’s stupid, I’m going to either ignore, find a loophole to get around it or write a thesis on how stupid it is and why it’s stupid.
2026-07-21 10:33:57
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moosecanoe :
Problem is, if you break the rules, you immediately feel guilty
2026-07-21 20:38:02
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mojo :
fr, ppl be cutting corners😭😒
2026-07-21 15:16:12
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Algala Inspo :
I realized recently I am the only one following rules and having integrity. I remember in a group of sales ppl I was the only female and they used to make fun of me promoting “accountability” and Integrity! Go figure
2026-07-21 15:05:59
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White Trash Macgyver :
Looking back 15 yrs & I can see it so clearly now 😂 18 yr old me, as a new maid I refused to cheat the clock while cleaning rooms, all of my other coworkers would clock in and out to have faster times and I thought it was lying so I refuse then got in trouble for being too slow.
2026-07-22 01:41:13
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