@iam.esther.maria: Is always possible. It just requires you to own your sh** and not take anything personal. It starts with facing your own shadows, flaws mistakes, and suffering. Having compassion for yourself and understand that the other person’s projections towards you are just their reactions from their own unavknowledged suffering and unconscious shadows that rather blame then own. When we own our shadows and are able to rise above he said she said, he did she did, draw a line and just decide to look towards tomorrow not yesterday, and place children and their needs and wellbeing above our own. Which is why a neat model is often the best and most supportive option for the kids. They always stay in their own home and the parents rotate between their “single” home and the kids home based on their rotation plans. Children don’t have the same emotional tools and strategies an adult can apply. So be the adult. Shoulder the responsibility and place the kids needs and wellbeing before your own. If the parents can agree on the welfare in the children and stop nit picking the past and take also responsibility for their own bills and life in the future. A peaceful resolution can be found. 1. Step: personal responsibility 2. Step: don’t take anything from the other party personally but meet their suffering with compassion 3. Step: be the adult and put the children’s needs first! #divorce #consciousdivorce #empowereddivorce #mindset #empowerment

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