This sounds so good, I think it would be really difficult in practice. I feel like no matter how aware we are, attachment will tangle us whether we like it or not. Part of being human. To love deeply, is to grieve deeply.
2026-07-21 16:57:20
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daniemalss :
life is impermanent, but love doesn’t have to be. there are people who have lost the love of their lives and are still deeply in love with them as if they were physically on this Earth.
2026-07-21 23:48:01
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꧁ dyandra ꧂ :
You came up with this ?? Where can I read more ? This is healing me
2026-07-21 13:06:02
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purepretti :
this is so hard to hear
2026-07-21 19:56:26
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i know but
2026-07-23 11:50:07
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🌙 :
attachment truly is the root of all suffering
2026-07-22 15:20:12
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peaklandsagaa :
You can love someone without depending on them to make you feel a certain way, in my opinion if you depend on your partner let’s say to make you happy. yes they’re gonna make you happy they’re gonna make you feel the happiest u ever have but if this is your only source of happiness this becomes leaching rather than loving.
2026-07-22 05:34:03
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jaymya :
no one understands how it feels until they live it
2026-07-21 20:10:04
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Kämäl. :
It’s impossible not to get attached to someone when they are telling you that they want to be with you for the rest of their lives constantly, that they can’t live without you and promising you all the things you ever wished for. Also, it doesn’t help that they were everything you ever wanted.
2026-07-23 07:15:09
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mai :
i would also add, The goal isn’t to love someone less so it hurts less. The goal is to build a life that’s so rooted in yourself that loving someone becomes something beautiful you share, not the only place you stand.
2026-07-22 04:11:21
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n :
but if they’re the only right person for me, why would they have to leave
2026-07-22 13:44:30
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mad’ :
but wdym love isn’t supposed to be attachement ? i’m confused
2026-07-23 00:28:33
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Irfaan愛沈 :
but what's the point loving someone if ur not gonna be with them the rest of ur life? this isn't a part time job it's a full time job
2026-07-23 00:51:53
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Theemow :
If you dont allow yourself to attach fully, wil you be able to experience something like a relationship to the fullest potential?
2026-07-23 18:55:04
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ariana :
exactly what Buddhism teaches abt attachment and love
2026-07-23 07:31:14
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Anabanana :
This sounds like it was written by a person who isnt currently in love because love is forever and LOVE is what gives you future what give you meaning for the future ahead of you if not love i would be grieving past and i would wake up everyday thinking of waking up tomorrow for the person i love
2026-07-22 19:16:09
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user172752956552 :
“Every person you meet is a gift before they become a memory” I felt that
2026-07-23 12:35:37
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precious :
The only soulmate you’ll ever truly have, is yourself.
2026-07-22 21:32:55
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💕 :
So what's the point of loving someone if you can't share your life with them? If I like someone, I don't want to divide my love into pieces among a thousand other people throughout my life. What's the point of counting your feelings until the moment that person is gone?
2026-07-22 21:16:20
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chima :
every person you meet is a gift before they become a memory
2026-07-21 19:36:57
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mythicalhidee :
I feel like as you get older you start to appreciate every little moment you have. People come and go but what makes those situations greater is that those memories never fade and are always ones to cherish. Life is inevitable so appreciating everything and expecting nothing is what will keep you sane. You live and you learn.
2026-07-21 19:21:22
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