SJ in China
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Tuesday 21 July 2026 12:13:36 GMT
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Vinci :
he doesn't need money. he needs opportunities
2026-07-22 03:31:49
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Naturia :
he's just a kid....just a kid
2026-07-21 20:26:03
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Treu :
as a chinese maybe because most of us were taught since childhood about : - mianzi ( saving face, as a man we ought to have dignity and not bring shame to our family while we still can work it out, unless when you're hit rock bottom ) - the system of reciprocity ( guan xi, Accepting help means you now owe the other person, which can weigh heavily on a person's conscience - Struggling in silence is often viewed as a virtuous demonstration of strength and resilience in traditional confucian. hence why tipping is also considered offensive in china. Maybe not all chinese people hold that value, but surely this kid still did and it's great to see.
2026-07-22 16:50:45
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Darlene D :
How ironic...his response to the offers for assistance make me want to help him all the more. Very commendable of him wanting to achieve his success on his own. Thank you so much for the update!
2026-07-21 22:26:03
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리야나 :
he is so strong 😭 and the saddest part is when he said his father becomes emotional when he calls, the father must feel so so sad and down, he must have think bcs of him his kids cannot further study. this thought breaks me 😭
2026-07-24 17:28:06
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Nullboy🥀 :
Communist countries are not communist at all😭
2026-07-22 00:07:14
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yam flavoured milk 🇸🇬 :
even though he said he dont want help, please let him know that so many people still want to help him 🥺 i understand as chinese people feel its 不好意思，or to feel responsible for their own family matters, but he and his sister, as young adults, should be doing what other yound adults are doing too. they deserve that 🥺 their parents too. 加油 🙏🙏
2026-07-21 15:46:39
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Akilegna Lopez :
Didn't expect to see an update after watching the first part couple minutes ago
2026-07-24 07:30:27
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🍫🍫 :
seriously, please js surprise his parents with money to get their situation better that shi broke my heart iwl
2026-07-22 18:59:15
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iflipover :
I know he doesn’t want free help. But if he’s selling something, there would be people here willing to buy or support his business
2026-07-24 13:29:25
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I'm sure many rich Chinese can help him get a work near his hometown and give him education at the same time so he can get a great job
2026-07-23 17:22:39
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🅰️boy :
what about we all make a donation for him
2026-07-21 12:28:46
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Eve :
When u want to complaint about your life,look at this little man right here….all the best all the way…sending love and hugs ❤️
2026-07-21 14:05:58
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Grandson :
why don't we help the parents instead for now and then let him achieve his dream by his efforts
2026-07-23 10:03:46
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🐫 :
the way he shake your hand is a proof how gentle is he
2026-07-21 22:37:30
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ur mother is green isnt? :
he's very mature and his parents raised him well.
2026-07-22 00:29:03
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Ham&cheese :
Set up a fund and surprise him on your next visit
2026-07-21 16:40:20
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araylin :
He won't see this message, but I'm proud of him. I hope life is kind to him. And I think something should be done even if he refuses help.🤍
2026-07-22 15:16:56
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Asazushi :
He supposed to go to school, and just playing with friends🥺
2026-07-22 00:06:09
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User918373 :
He called me “older brother” 😭😭😭😭😭😭 bruh this video makes me sad every time I watch it 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
2026-07-23 18:18:20
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Singlemumtraveling :
This Mama from Germany would love to pay his rent for a month. Or just buy him something that gives him joy. It’s so sweet and kind that he doesn’t want any help but he’s so young and I just want him to be as happy and carefree as possible
2026-07-22 15:30:56
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eva :
So humble life definitely isnt easy for this kid, but he wont admit it because its just a cultural difference. Please set up the fundraiser still, if you do it and give it to him prepared he might accept it.
2026-07-21 21:38:52
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Blind Girl Vs The Building :
I know you speak the language snd you live there, but certain Chinese ways of foing this is one… we don’t ask if someone needs help or how we can help, or even offer it. You TELL them, “Here, this is a gift without ANY obligation of repayment bc I appreciate how good you’ve been to me. You MUST ACCEPT IT. “ — That way, it fies not come across as charity or msking them feel it is their need or situation, but that you genuinely appreciate the gift of THEIR friendship and how much you value it. That is the Chinese way. To find ways to give to those we care about without making it seem like it is charity.
2026-07-22 16:27:55
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