@404errorxx: The cost of being the strong one is often being forgotten🥀 #TheStrongOne #SilentStrength #Healing #SelfReflection #Growth

NJ_OT_NSAM :

Maybe this is the quiet reality of being the eldest and only daughter. You become everyone’s dependable person, so dependable that people stop wondering if you need someone too.

𝓝𝓪𝔂𝓷𝓪 𓏲ּ𝄢 :

i knew it was a compliment but why I still felt disappointed, angry and sad? 😔

♍ :

They just don't know that my strength is the collection of my quiet surrenders.

Aryn Naa _👩🏻‍🏫🇲🇨🇰🇷✨️ :

And maybe that's why, when these accumulated compliments lead to sad feelings, once it explodes, we just get angry in front of them. This makes our image as 'the strong one' even more prominent, and it becomes our fault ;)

Nor Hafeezah :

So much remains unspoken... still resting in a place called the 'heart'... ❤️‍🩹... some feelings are too deep for words and too heavy to be shared... 💔... all I can do is remain silent... ALLAH alone knows every tear never shed... every prayer never voiced... and every burden my heart continues to carry... 😔🍃🌿

Chintya suh💚 :

and later I got psoriasis and my doctor say its positive because of stress :)) coy nambah nambahin kerjaan aja. I never ask for ot😭

novendaa :

begitu anak perempuannya beneran mandiri, skrg malah ortu takut karena anaknya belum menikah .

yy :

Selalu kata2 ni mak2 akan bg dekat anak perempuan. Bila anak perempuan dibiar terlalu berdikari. Nampak ja kuat,dalaman mesti dah rapuh 🥲

⛧ :

it is okey,kite pon tak nak susahkan sape2 .I can handle myself .

iichicyraa 😏 :

i'm the youngest btw sis 😂😂😂

_yourbite :

i wish i wish~ no worry.

&yeashz :

heheh

babyyroses🌹 :

until one day you termenangis in front of them while explaining apa yang you rasa 😭

kata :

Sangking pandai tidak mengandalkan orang lain, hal seperti ini pun dipuji. padahal dalam hati paling dalam, kita juga butuh seseorang untuk mengarahkan dan tempat bersandar.

give me a pen 🩶🫶 :

Iqaboo :

And that really makes me want to become the most independent woman and handle all by myself and nobody teaches me, i just learn it by myself.. kdg mereka tak nampak kita punya usaha, hanya berkata2 tanpa bertanya kita ok ke tak but that's okay.. maybe kata2 tu buat kita lebih kuat lagi🥰🥰

febryy :

norris :

wonu’s :

I am proud of myself for being able to carry myself with dignity and self-awareness, even in solitude, as a person, a Muslim, and a woman. Yet, from another perspective, those very same qualities are sometimes what break me apart. They make me feel deeply, reflect endlessly, and carry burdens in silence. The strength that keeps me standing is often the same strength that leaves me aching when no one is around to see it.

Ara G. :

😔