I don’t need to be lead, I’m a fully functional adult. I prefer a healthy partnership!
2026-07-21 15:47:34
899
TaMarcus :
A lot of men, lack emotional intelligence and that’s a vital part in being a good partner. But don’t lack the patriarchy mindset.
2026-07-21 17:48:45
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Taylor Alese :
Women are losing the plot in picking their partners
2026-07-21 14:52:59
434
Dominique 💗 :
We are strategists, men are executors. It’s a great dynamic to accomplish so much if we respect each others strengths ✨🥰
2026-07-21 16:07:36
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Bee :
I don’t wanna be lead at all
2026-07-23 21:00:42
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Shoga :
I believe we are simply trying to apply old rules to a new game. Everyone works or has the option to work . We need to strive to be better partners. No one needs to be 100% the leader and no one needs to be 100% the follower.
2026-07-21 17:39:19
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mskamoryrose :
They don’t want the patriarchy to end 😭😭😭😭😭 i keep saying this but im painted as “bitter” and “masculine”
2026-07-21 16:11:53
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NIA :
I think it comes from Christianity and most religions in general…
2026-07-21 21:08:00
55
bigboogiekt :
“Eureka White patriarchy!” is frying me 😂😂😂😂
2026-07-21 17:35:17
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XAN🧡🤎🇭🇹 :
I actually don’t want to be led
2026-07-23 18:12:43
0
solvingdysautonomia :
Benevolent patriarchy 😵💫😵💫😵💫
2026-07-21 15:44:31
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Vanito :
😂😂 in guy code, Dr Strange doesn’t want to hold the knife (ie lead, initiate, dictate or control) alone anymore. That’s the concept, idea & point. Be each others best friends & that’s it
2026-07-23 16:53:01
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Chocolate_suave :
Faxxxx
2026-07-22 12:35:18
0
JassyReloadedUncensored🖤🔱❤️ :
I’m a woman who works professionally as a leader, I actually DID want that list because all of them ARE actually apart of being a good leader by the way. Leaders are good people in general. So I wanted a match which would require for him to understand leadership so I could yap about my staff or ask advice on situations
2026-07-21 19:52:34
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IntentionallyMe :
We want better LEADERS in the Community. We want better partners in the home. Thats it that's all.
2026-07-21 16:35:40
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Gailygail :
I don’t believe that. You can’t put all people into one lump sum. If you see life that way, it’s time to separate and see people and not groups of people.
2026-07-23 01:28:55
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Ankh Surah :
I am a leader. I want a good human partner
2026-07-21 15:19:04
118
DP :
My women is a coherent adult!!! That part✅
2026-07-23 19:13:03
0
soulaani stunna :
i’m not looking for a “leader” i know where i’m tryna go already, all i want is someone who loves me and desires a partnership to do life together
2026-07-21 18:09:46
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Jomaigawd :
I'm not looking for a leader im looking for an equal partner. 50/50 in every single aspect
2026-07-21 20:21:57
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lovergirl9700 :
It’s almost like both partners should be leaders at different times regarding certain things. The word leader just needs to be erased from dating and partnership.
2026-07-21 17:50:40
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Geminis_Kiss :
I don’t want to be “lead” I want a PARTNER. And realistically the BEST leaders are BETTER followers.
2026-07-21 18:42:41
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It’s.your.favorite.jawn :
I think everyone needs to read Bell Hooks before entering romantic relationships. It needs to be a requirement. Communion and The Will to Change would save us all from these conversations 🥲🥲🥲
2026-07-21 18:52:03
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TreSix5ive :
Yes black king 👑
2026-07-22 00:53:55
5
Sarah Marie :
This message is a little all over the place, These are the qualities you would want a leader to have. These are not impossible qualities to develop as partner. It sounds like you are in agreement but don’t want to admit that some people are being losers? It’s ok. We all can do better.
2026-07-21 18:58:58
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