@not.your.pastors: Infidelity doesn’t just break your heart. It makes you question your own reality. You don’t just lose trust in the person who betrayed you. You start replaying conversations, questioning memories, and wondering how much of your relationship was actually real. For the one who was unfaithful, it’s easy to separate the affair from the damage it caused. For the betrayed spouse, those two things can never be separated. That’s why healing takes more than ending the affair. It takes facing the full weight of what was broken. What’s harder to recover from—the betrayal itself or questioning everything you thought you knew? #Jesus #christiantiktok #marriage #infidelity #healing
never ever take them back.. the marriage is over in the kingdom of God..period.. you are free.. run
2026-07-22 02:03:14
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meganrudnyaiscanl1 Meegs :
I was so stupid for thinking he would never 🙄😭
2026-07-22 13:04:02
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jocean42 :
Why do people take them back? I would never let that type of person into my life again. Not a best friend. Not a partner. Also, how arrogant to put a partner through taking you back in the first place. Leave and give them their peace. Selfish all of the way around.
2026-09-18 17:08:31
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Zoey Taylor :
Which is why I can’t trust my own instincts now. He did this under my nose for years and I had no idea because he still seemed so happy at home.
2026-07-22 23:33:51
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Sulamita :
My ex said since they were emotional affairs and not actual sex - it wasn’t a big deal. I still felt betrayed.
2026-07-28 01:15:32
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Lisa Selway :
Is the stage where you get the ICK from him and annoyed with everything normal??
2026-07-24 16:47:27
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Shanflo414 :
Is it normal to feel guilty for taking my husband away from her? They seemed so much more in love and compatible. Is it also normal to feel a connection to the other woman? Like I feel compassion for her
2026-07-21 18:03:36
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LIFE&NICOLE :
This is so true. My ex and I divorced after several episodes of unfaithfulness, he was a great compartmentalizer, to this days he tells ppl infidelity had nothing to do with the divorce yet it had everything to do with it .
2026-07-22 01:37:34
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Garrhet Sampson :
They don’t get better, they just get better at hiding it.
2026-07-22 06:49:22
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Sandra M.Garcia🇵🇷 :
I wish I wouldn't have forgiven my serial cheating Narcissist Exhusband so MANY times!
Leave sooner ladies and GET YOUR LIFE, PEACE, HAPPINESS BACK!!❤️
2026-07-21 20:19:29
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Erik Stueckrad :
super hard to hear with the music
2026-07-21 19:08:31
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Lakeya Marks :
You are going to have dreams too
2026-07-21 18:59:38
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Monique :
I’ve gone through betrayal before and it’s hell but to go through it being pregnant is a different kind of hell
2026-09-18 15:10:47
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yarelizul :
I wish I had never experience this in my life and don't know what to do with it. we work so hard to restore our relationship and he work hard to gain may trust and then he threw it in a trash can.
2026-09-17 01:02:04
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1111Sabine1111 :
which episode is this?
2026-07-21 17:57:33
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Jessi Lynn :
My husband has been home 3 months and says I need to just forget it and let it go. He said if I bring it up again he is leaving. He refuses to talk about it. We have been together 20 years. I’m lost and a mess, I love him but trust is gone. He planned on marrying one of the girls, but claims he thought of me and loved only me. Says he realized what he had with me and wants us back. But I can’t just forget. He came home 4/29 after being unfaithful for months, my daughter’s boyfriend told me. I had no clue. I got sent videos of them having sex in our bar and our camper. The text messages I was sent between him and multiple women. It’s burnt in my memory. I’m struggling.
2026-07-25 16:06:22
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B o y s i e s :
He cheated twice with the same girl several years apart. It’s been two years since I found out. I forgave. But I think it will always hurt.
2026-07-22 04:13:33
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edwershen3 :
He’s playing both of you.
2026-07-21 19:17:38
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Urfav :
Yes.
2026-08-18 06:19:05
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Elise Joy :
he cheated 24 years and I found out a year ago💔💔💔
2026-07-22 03:00:56
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Natasha Santana :
He feels justified in what he did. Also posted a new relationship even though we are still married. And I’m left with no answers just picking up pieces raising our kids alone. While he gets away with it and is preaching on stages saying his new relationship is from God
2026-07-21 20:59:10
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lizloganberry :
I was betrayed. I’m healing and not with the betrayer and this just makes me grateful I’m no longer with him.
2026-08-23 17:13:41
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bublerap76 :
Yup - also the “unfaithful” are abusers
2026-08-22 16:47:28
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jme_wilson :
my ex
2026-08-01 20:45:03
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Trauma.Practitioner.Jay :
You can have your Happily Even After.
2026-07-21 19:55:52
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