@fizzonthego: The neurodivergent urge to confuse everyone by never initiating a conversation, keeping to yourself, and looking completely unapproachable… only to become incredibly engaging, bubbly, and somehow the most talkative person in the room for the five minutes someone actually approaches you 😭 #AuDHD #NeurodivergentLife #AutisticExperience #ADHDLife #KingCastro

𝓚𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓒𝓪𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸
𝓚𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓒𝓪𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸
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str2wberr1es
૮₍˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶₎ა :
I’ll be listening to other people conversations smiling as if I was taking with them
2026-07-22 19:49:43
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taylorbrown6996
Taylor Brown :
I overheard this girl at my job say and omg Taylor's actually really cool if you talk to him first
2026-07-22 11:55:32
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y0ul0vej
J🤍 :
Me lowkey ignoring my favorite coworkers when I see them for the first few hours of my shift just to be kicking it later. Idk why tf I do this.
2026-07-24 14:45:11
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justjaliyahe
LIYAH :
Got it bad 😭 I only speak when spoken to fr
2026-07-22 06:02:56
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madslilygrace
stoner island 3.0 :
instigating not investigating
2026-07-21 15:36:31
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whispycake64
adri :
im genuinely an npc 😭
2026-07-22 21:07:12
930
1o3cce
1o3cce :
it’s the cons of being raised “speak when spoken to”
2026-07-25 23:57:43
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ms.unlinkable_19
Ika :
Or start a conversation and then randomly get REALLY awkward in the middle of it
2026-07-29 16:05:28
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artsypenpal
artsypenpal :
someone once told me they thought I was trying to create a "cool kids club." I've never been cool in my life. I just talk to ppl who talk to me first. if you don't talk to me first, then I will never talk to you ever bc I'm too scared to start convos. 😭
2026-07-25 01:14:28
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placedbythewaters
placedbythewaters :
I know you meant instigate but investigate also works cause people be telling me stuff waiting for me to ask more questions and I don’t. Like I’m okay not knowing more. Unless it actually interests me which is seldomly.
2026-07-25 05:17:02
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moss4teeth
heather⛧newman :
Like I KNOW when someone asks you “how’re you?” You’re supposed to say “I’m good how are you?” But my knee jerk reactions is just “good :)” like I worry about how it makes me look at work to never inquire about the customers day but like I don’t care lmao it feels unnatural
2026-07-26 07:11:16
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halfbrainshay
HalfBrainShay :
Do you by chance mean instigating
2026-08-07 16:02:12
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alex.roberts15
Alex :
Because it’s always easier to mind your own business
2026-07-27 14:11:10
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incoganato
Incog :
"I thought you were really intimidating but you're actually very friendly!" no I'm not, I bite
2026-07-25 15:13:26
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powwwys
beatrice the golden witch :
but dont talk to me for too long, i will gradually take longer and longer to answer until i just say "mhm" to everything
2026-07-30 00:22:04
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whosgabrielle
￴ :
it be getting hard sometimes lowkey.
2026-07-22 16:21:18
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that_kenneth_guy
Josh :
No literally. I don’t engage conversation because what if they don’t wanna talk to me, why bother them? But then if someone talks to me, I don’t shut up.
2026-07-28 18:16:48
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dosesoflani
lani :
I told a customer I don’t speak unless spoken too…..I’m a bartender 😁😂😂
2026-07-27 12:57:23
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dummy.rabbit
dummy.rabbit :
I only speak when spoken to 😅 but I’m pretty good on conversation
2026-07-22 22:40:06
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rueroyal
Rue Royal :
Investigating or instigating
2026-07-25 20:49:28
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woah_yikes
woah_yikes :
how do I fix this i genuinely cannot approach people first it feels illegal
2026-07-22 15:17:37
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farty_mcfartfart
:
I think you mean “instigate” my friend❤️
2026-07-23 02:17:11
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idiotonline4442
Dee|#1❄️🌟(🎈)shipper :
i just hover over people's conversations cause i never know whats appropriate to add in but i very much want to hear what's going on but then mid way I get bored and just walk away
2026-07-25 13:41:31
15
justguybro
GuyBro :
“ Engaging conversation “ instead of investigating conversation
2026-07-26 06:33:41
15
animewh9
a black cat 🐈‍⬛ :
just walking around undiagnosed
2026-07-29 12:43:29
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