@quitefranklyidgaf: CHILDREN CANNOT BE GROWN. Stop blaming KIDS for adult actions! #dearblackcommunity #csaawareness

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angel.sleepz
𝑨𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒍 :
Or when they say a color is too grown? An 8 year old wearing red is NOT the problem
2026-07-21 20:02:24
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tomorrowsmodernboxes
⚢ :
also spanking is abuse, you can't pull the pants down on anyone else and beat their butt without catching a charge, why is it okay for children??? 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
2026-07-21 15:21:40
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izzie_stories
izzie :
Not just in the Black community, in the Hispanic community too. . Tell me why my mom said, "Stop flirting with your uncle." when I ws 15/16. All I was asking him was how to change the oil and brakes on my vehicle because it was my first car and I wanted to learn how to maintenance it myself. My uncle was literally a mechanic.
2026-07-23 00:17:56
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pynkbratzzz_
kamïnaa :
i believe the term "being fast/grown" was created by older black people so they don't have to blame themselves and their parenting on how children act. children are like sponges, they absorb what's around them and then release it by mimicking what they've seen/heard
2026-07-21 19:15:02
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whosqpiskii
🦇QPISKII❤️‍🔥 :
And hitting a child with a object as “discipline” is also abuse cut the bullshi
2026-07-22 09:09:54
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luvely_lola
lonnie [51%] :
Wearing colors like purple, dark red or having long braids is not “grown” either
2026-07-21 20:38:19
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pr3ttyy_mymyy
pr3ttyy_mymyy :
Dont blame children for adults seeing them as adults BLAME ADULTS FOR SEEING CHILDREN AS ADULTS (not an argument against the vid btw)
2026-07-21 20:17:04
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omniipresenttt
🐠🧩⊹˚₊꒰A r i e l l e꒱₊˚⊹🌻🌊 :
gen got told i looked like a str1pp3r for having blonde highlights in my hair 😂😂😂😂
2026-07-22 04:27:24
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narameow33
𝘯𝘢𝘳𝘢 ᵕ̈ :
Spanking is not and will never be valid. My momma used to beat me so bad I bled, hitting is js lazy parenting caused by anger
2026-07-22 15:04:48
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theylovekaykay22
𝓚𝓪𝔂🎱📿 :
literally my mom bought a simple dress for me for HER wedding and my aunt came jumping saying oh your a child get a jacket the dress had a my back showing she honestly gets me vex with the way she behaves so glad my mom won't be living with them anymore
2026-07-22 01:17:03
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gracie.victoriax
gracieee :
and wearing apparently "provacative" colours? i was 14 and wasnt allowed red nail polish on my toes or red dresses ect cus it was slu1ty AND not wearing red when i was like 8?
2026-07-22 02:24:10
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esosiquees13
S.O.C.K.S. :
undermined, unreported and untreated. then they wonder why there's little communication when kids grow up
2026-07-21 21:53:06
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jemmywinks
darcy o'queef :
never thought I'd have to argue with people for saying "sexualizing children is bad" fr
2026-07-22 07:09:13
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chloesalt101
chlomydia :
literally. i’ve seen kids at 7 get called fast for just dressing up. like these are children??
2026-07-21 15:50:54
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ich_bein_goated
lҽѵí :
And if a uncle ( any family member)is touching your kid or something like that and they don’t like that SAY SOMETHING
2026-07-21 17:39:49
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kit.kat.kola
coco-colla · 🙄💜 :
Wearing edges is not grown too 😭 it’s hair
2026-07-22 03:37:22
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xshaking.delusionsx
asha :
and the WEIRDEST THINGS are considered “fast” fym i can’t have fishnet gloves??
2026-07-22 16:02:07
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pimpavery
aves :
people disagreeing with you is crazy
2026-07-21 19:21:14
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jaxs.husband8
彡★puɐqsnɥsɔıuospuɐɹǝdsɐƆ :
No actually my mom is white and what’s crazy is she’ll call my younger neice fast (who’s black, only dated one or two people, and very developed) but doesn’t care with my older neice (white passing, dated multiple boys back to back) reason why i mention the younger neice is very developed is because my mom sexualizes her body way too much and body shames her. 💔
2026-07-21 18:33:00
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00hzarchive
Tell Em ‘Teyam :
Cause how the hell is a COLOUR grown?? So glad I didn’t grow up in a household like that.
2026-07-22 11:50:28
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windyskies08
Kay🌈 :
If you need to tell your daughter to "Act right" or "dress appropriate" because a certain family member is around then your daughter is not the problem!
2026-07-22 21:31:12
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.sonnesonee_mavie
.sonnesonee_mavie :
And this is why the kids are so scared to tell. It should NEVER be a thought that you’re gonna get a whopping or that you’re gonna get told off when you were SA’d
2026-07-21 22:34:45
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whosluyanda
lulu_メ𝟶 :
I got told I look like a stripper coz of my nose ring🧍🏽‍♀️by a TEACHER
2026-07-22 15:38:31
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user420726967
josie 🌷 :
ik fast is not referring to speed but what is it referring too
2026-07-21 19:04:46
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