@drjondabach: If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You're not crazy. You're not asking for too much. Wanting emotional closeness, affection, and genuine partnership isn't unreasonable. Whether your marriage can heal or you ultimately choose a different path, you deserve to understand what's happening and make those decisions from a place of clarity rather than confusion. If you'd like more support, send me a **DM with the word "community"** and I'll send you the details. Or you can check the **link in my bio** to learn more. #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #HealthyRelationships
This particular description makes me realize that there is a tremendous overlap between the qualities of dismissive avoidance, and ASD. Could you shine some light on how you can distinguish between the two? Because one is the way the person is wired, and the other is an attachment system that could be healed or improved upon. But it makes no sense to badger someone with ASD to get more in touch with their feelings when it’s just not how they are built.
2026-07-22 18:22:13
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Brie :
I think its funny how I can tell my husband what to grab at the store and he gets everything but what I asked for
2026-07-21 16:15:58
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r :
grateful I dont have to deal with this especially snice im chronically ill my husband is amazing
2026-07-22 11:26:58
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Lisa Gareiss :
💔just got my heart broken by an avoidant (I'm anxious) but I don't think he even knows that he's an avoidant
2026-07-21 16:42:19
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wendystilwelljames :
Community, but I’m not sure how you send it or how I can find it. I’m not very illiterate on here.
2026-07-29 06:47:29
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Cheese Wiz 🌸 :
How about that I absolutely hate fish, so he ordered me fish tacos for lunch when I was meeting him for lunch last week, then insisted that I always order fish tacos. We’ve been together 11+ years. 😢
2026-07-22 09:48:29
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missk :
community
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sarahcallahan :
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2026-07-21 17:09:49
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