So relatable… had to say goodbye to so many versions of my mom before finally losing the shell of a person that was left at the very end…
2026-08-31 04:48:17
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dani :
anticipatory grief is one of the most horrible experiences
2026-08-15 02:32:47
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Nooneatall :
Commenting in relatable solidarity💔❤️🩹
2026-08-11 13:42:56
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Allison Peterson :
It was like losing her twice. Once when she got sick and once when she passed away.
2026-08-12 00:36:29
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alex :
I couldn’t have related to this more, thinking of you ❤️
2026-07-23 10:34:23
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Chelsea :
I'm in the same boat with my mom. the anticipatory grief is the worst and I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy. it's hell here.
2026-08-18 03:43:15
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Emily Stevens :
I’ve never read something more relatable in my life.❤️🩹
2026-08-27 19:28:30
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Ty :
Nothing hurts worse than watching your mom suffer and lose her spirit to illness
2026-08-12 06:52:47
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MommaD :
I can sadly relate to this.. my mother was diagnosed with dementia and we had to place her into a nursing home due to my father being diagnosed with cancer at the same time.. this is a struggle and have been grieving who they were before the illnesses but I am still holding on to who they are today
2026-08-27 02:50:02
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Run with Angie 🏃♀️ :
Losing my mum for cancer… not sure how to survive…
2026-07-21 19:36:42
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tayllorb :
from the time we got a diagnosis to the time my mom passed it had only been 1 month, sometimes i’m grateful that she didn’t have to go through years of this but gosh i wish i would’ve known when it was going to happen so we could have just one last talk. it happened so quick
2026-08-16 00:38:51
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Emma🌚 :
this is so relatable, people think we start grieving only when the person is gone but in reality it happens way before because as you said, the hardest with cancer is to stand there and being powerless while it’s taking away the person you used to know but the person you will love and miss forever
2026-08-06 21:51:31
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Birchy :
couldn't of put it better myself. Miss you Mom 🪽
2026-08-05 18:37:15
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miisamuki :
I’ve been grieving my mom 4 years now… she have ALS. Crying, missing, terrible pain.. trying to look strong in front of her. Now she is so ill that we don’t know when is last day… emotional pain and sorrow so long… i’m so sorry for you and I hope your mom has found peace now.. and I hope you the best. It’s hard so see when your family member is slowly fading away and is in pain…💔
2026-08-05 19:30:31
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Dimmed_light :
Since my mum’s cancer diagnosis life has been hell, seeing her fighting for her life killed me and shredded me to pieces.
2026-07-22 15:33:11
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In_between_cities 🏙️ :
I just went through this with my mom. I cared for her every day during her last 4 months. She is gone now almost a month and I miss her a lot. But I know I need to move forward because it’s what she would have wanted.
2026-08-06 10:46:44
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the_othersara :
The final sacrifice of a parent is the strength, empathy and resilience their child gains through the pain of losing them.
2026-07-21 20:41:45
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mafiamaiden :
Yep 😭💔
2026-08-03 11:26:26
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Chloe Gibbons :
Cancer sucks ☹️.
2026-07-24 21:16:15
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Still our Mum :
This is so relatable 😭
2026-08-19 18:16:59
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Hanz :
Could not relate more omg
2026-07-31 03:39:22
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joey :
ugh heavy on the grieving the version of her before she got cancer. cancer took so much from my mom and she didn't deserve any of that!! 😔
2026-08-10 19:33:11
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daisypage32 :
Living this right now, it’s heart breaking
2026-07-23 13:06:43
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Flowerz :
was so hard watching thee most independent strong woman..become so weak and fragile 💔 and I knew she was sick..i seen it every day..but she was beautiful to me..and now when I look at pics of her in her last months it shocks me to see just HOW sick she really looked.. im happy shes not suffering anymore but my god do I feel robbed of growing old with her.. 💔
2026-08-19 02:54:01
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