@sibahlemuthwa: #stitch with @Nku_💫| Self improvement I understand why women are encouraged to marry quick and young, the more you know, the more you find yourself and grow, the harder it is to settle. Because truly that’s what partnership is. It’s settling.
I hear you, but I wonder if trauma is steering the ship here. Real partnership doesn't ask you to shrink yourself or settle one bad experience shouldn't ruin the whole concept of a healthy marriage
2026-07-21 20:36:53
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Chef Makoti 👩🍳 :
I need us to go live so I can share my thoughts properly cause I have so much to say on the matter 🙈😭😫🫠
2026-07-22 11:08:59
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Eish! :
I think who you marry makes a difference and not necessarily marriage itself.
Also, if kids are the main reason why you would seek partnership, why not have kids by yourself? Modern medicine and all?
2026-07-22 11:14:21
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lethi mngadi :
Being single for long is dangerous. You learn to live and be on your own and eventually see little to nothing you will get from a relationship that you can’t do for yourself. So I 100% agree with her. Do it NOW
2026-07-22 03:13:12
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azee green :
Relationships require an element of self abandonment to a degree. I don’t know if I’ll reconcile that with myself
2026-07-25 08:28:40
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Enhle :
I don't wanna lie it's nice over here ☺️😊❤️
2026-07-21 23:01:23
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lavhelesaninetshi6 :
Iyooooo 😩🤣
2026-07-23 01:23:18
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MaShenge :
I've been married and divorced them started dating oooo I wish I met this man first 🥺🥺🥺 it's peaceful here
2026-07-23 19:50:27
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Explore with Jen 🇿🇦✨ :
I honestly love this take! 💕
2026-07-22 13:04:17
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Bridgett :
As a 33 year old who hasn't dated anyone in over 10 years and has never experienced "true love and also heartbreak" going through life through my lense is such a different experience to the majority who always seemed to want romantic love and marriage. Having watched all the women in my life chase this one goal and see the different outcomes to that I am so so grateful to 18 year old me who had 1.5 relationships and decided that this whole thing wasn't for her. The best description I can give it is sitting under the shade at a cliff top and watch people constantly jumping off and seeing how they land. Very few seem to land into water and make it out unscathed though which always left me wondering why people keep willingly jumping.
2026-07-21 17:18:15
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uhtlee :
" getting married young so you can get your first divorce out of the way by 30 "
2026-07-21 21:06:57
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Thina Ntsaluba :
😳😳😳
2026-07-21 19:56:28
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complimentsbypali :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-21 17:03:08
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