@missclairebenjamin: Handling the pay rise that never happens…. When you’ve been promised a pay rise and it seems like you’re constantly being fobbed off it can lead to feelings of resentment. Understandable especially if you’ve taken on more responsibilities. Wanting to assert yourself in this situation is the right thing to do but assertiveness and reactivity are not the same thing. Acting from emotion and reactivity like we see in this first part of the clip is unlikely to help the situation, if anything it could cause lead to resistance in your manager at a time you need them to be advocating for you. This is a time when strong influencing skills are needed. The second part of the video shows an example of being assertive and influencing the situation. This is far more likely to lead to a positive response and the outcome you desire. 💬 Have you ever been on either side of this? Share your perspective in the comments 📌 Please remember the advice offered in this video is generalised and will not fit every situation. Therefore, please use your own judgement when using this advice and adapt it to suit your situation. ➕ Follow Claire Benjamin for more tips on navigating tricky work situations #worktips #difficultconversations #assertivecommunication #communicationskills #boundaries

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victorialyons28
victorialyons28 :
Oh boy I’m in this situation right now. Remit doubled last September, have actively stepped up, have no resource supporting me due to budget, and after having a few conversations about role title - still waiting, still giving it my all with nothing in return
2026-07-22 21:27:34
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novanoiresse
NovaNoir :
When its been 6m its not gonna happen.
2026-07-22 06:52:33
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addiechevalier2
Addie :
they first reaction is the only way to go.
2026-07-22 02:01:26
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taj111111110
talia 🇨🇭🐄 :
The second version said exactly the same as the first one. I would have said that after 6 months of doing free labour I‘d disengage with these additional responsibilities until they had a chance to figure out their processes. 😌 I would never accept a fake promotion anyways, title change or not.
2026-07-22 20:15:39
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simonsmith107
simonsmith107 :
I got told by a manager I was getting a pay rise 2 months later I asked I haven’t had my rise another manager said I wasn’t getting one and shouldn’t be told I was so I stopped doing the jobs they wanted done as it was there jobs then handed my notice in and give them 1week notice lol
2026-07-22 20:59:13
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saintsfc05
Jack🔴⚪️🌈 :
That's being too nice ngl you have to force them to make a decision
2026-07-21 23:19:53
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queen_of_yunmeng
Grace :
I think the first approach is good. Why stay working under a boss that doesn’t support you? Especially if this isn’t the first conversation and it’s been months. That’s unprofessional on the boss’s side.
2026-07-22 12:58:51
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jj_nft3
jj_nft3 :
There wouldn’t b a long conversation. If the company doesn’t recognise my worth to them or the job I’m doing, I’m out
2026-07-22 17:27:34
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these.gentle.offerings
These Gentle Offerings :
Take it to HR. If they don’t respond, take it to ACAS.
2026-07-22 19:04:27
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owltime_spam
Owltime🔆🌀 :
No, absolutely not. sometimes you have to realise your value and give an ultimatum. no "when do you think you'll have a timeline". "i want a timeline within 2 weeks or i will be turning in my 2 weeks." getting fobbed off for 6 months is ridiculous
2026-07-22 18:49:14
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moon4158
Moon T415 :
say all of this in an email with a more tighter timeline and copy in their boss or HR
2026-07-22 08:27:00
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blsparks2010
bsparks 🆘🇺🇸 :
Did it the right way and was let go last week 😒
2026-07-22 00:39:08
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readbykiekie
Readbykiekie :
Being nice doesn’t get you nowhere when you’re working in a place that does not respect you. The first example was perfectly fine.
2026-07-22 14:19:38
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ronniensw
Ronnie :
If any employee ever says to me they may reevaluate if they are staying or not.. I always say, thank you for feedback, I’m always happy for you to keep your options open. - then in my book.. RED flag employee! Move them on.
2026-07-22 00:16:01
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adeledazeem33
Adeledazeem :
Me need money now me sick
2026-07-22 02:22:00
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aimee..charlotte
aimee :
Would love to see how you would handle my current predicament, my JD has been amended and my workload and responsibilities have more than doubled. I asked for a review and salary review (4+ years since my last pay review), I’ve been told no pay rise but my new JD still stands…
2026-07-22 12:37:15
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lego_chap
Dave :
Next steps…. Yeah big ones to a decent company who reward hard workers
2026-07-21 19:53:11
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pixiescientist
PixieScientist :
this is why I dont take on extra if I have nothing concrete lmao not doing more work for less pay.
2026-07-22 08:36:16
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blueatoms
Ghazal🧿 :
Claire I’ve been watching your videos since I was a uni student and I finally have a job where I can implement these irl!! Thank you for being you❤️✨
2026-07-22 09:59:35
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kaetra1
Kaetra :
I've always had to get another job offer first. I think it doesn't matter how you communicate to them that if they don't raise yourself, you're gonna look for another job, from that moment on they're gonna be looking to get rid of you. That's how it works in the United States anyway.
2026-07-22 01:04:33
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user383365416
user383365416 :
Then when you hand your notice in, the pay rise magically gets confirmed.
2026-07-22 12:45:29
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cruiseimpossible
CruiseImpossible :
I'm in that situation but I will be getting something in my pay at the end of this month apparently although not seen anything in writing. How do I handle a boss who knows I have ADHD tell me I need to manage my time better but then undermines my decisions, wastes 25 minutes of my time asking my opinion and playing psychological mind games to the point where I end up saying if you are going to pull rank, just tell in the first instance and save us both the time.
2026-07-22 06:22:32
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haqwn_x
Haqwn🥀 :
I have tried the second approach and it’s been pushed aside as though it’s not a priority. Unfortunately, the first approach appears to be more effective. It’s quite sad how you have to express your disappointment for the right action to be taken
2026-07-22 12:58:10
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petetoks182
Peter :
Pretty sure that’s illegal
2026-07-21 20:01:50
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