@al_areef_q: Your children are like a wall. Whether the wall is straight or crooked, smooth or cracked, people rarely blame the wall, they praise or question the builder. In the same way, a child’s character often reflects the environment they were raised in. Whatever reaction you get is often the result of your actions. If you don’t like the outcome, change the approach. Gentle parenting isn’t about pampering children, covering up their mistakes, or making them untouchable. It’s about raising them with patience, respect, accountability, and emotional security. It teaches them that mistakes have consequences, but correction doesn’t require humiliation. It replaces fear with understanding, while still maintaining clear boundaries and discipline. A parent who only controls raises a child who obeys when watched. A parent who guides raises a child who chooses what is right even when no one is watching. Your goal is not to raise children who fear you, but adults who thank you.
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Tuesday 21 July 2026 18:56:59 GMT
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mama G 2020 :
Thank you for this your wonderful advice,may God almighty reward you.
2026-07-29 19:33:53
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كتاب :
Ya Rabbi, Please remove the spirit of laziness when it comes to my ibadah, praying, hustling and chasing our dreams. Push us to our fullest potential.🤲🥹
2026-07-22 09:58:46
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Jaizjarra🇬🇲🇩🇪 :
Thank you for this million dollar advice.may Allah reward you
2026-07-29 06:21:42
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sir_abs :
Sorry to interrupt your scrolling but, I hope things work out for you.🙏🏽
Insha-Allah
2026-07-22 06:21:17
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naimash :
Thank you very much
2026-07-28 23:28:21
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queenbally :
Very helpful content. Jazakumllahu khoiran 🤲
2026-07-29 10:17:42
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Cece’s safe space :
Thanks for sharing
2026-07-28 06:22:06
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Maryam yakubu(Ayra exclusive) :
I wish it is as easy as you are saying it🥺
2026-07-29 11:21:33
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Zulphah Aromoye-Bisilimi 🇨🇦 :
This morning I didn't repeat myself cuz I was having chest pain and guess what? they did what I will scream for every morning
2026-07-21 22:42:48
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Khadijah🥰💫 :
I do not have a child yet but I’ve learnt a whole lot from this video. Jazakumlahu khairan
2026-07-22 07:14:57
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Hidaya :
Please how do i get a ten year old daughter to perform her salah and abulotion. I have talked to her about it, guided her, given her reasons as to why we pray as Muslims. But still yet I have to supervise her all the time to make sure she is doing the right thing if not she doesn’t do it the right way not because she doesn’t know how to but because she doesn’t want to.
2026-07-22 21:16:56
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Ayeesha umar❤❤ :
my 2 year old most of the time do not listen to me until I shout at him and he quickly does it but sometimes he listens without me shouting but I always feel bad whenever I shout at him and I can't control it sometimes. My prayer is that I hope it doesn't affect him in the future. May Allah grant us better understanding.
2026-07-22 19:52:21
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A- saramod varieties :
children would taste your patience, but may Almighty Allah make it easy for us, just watching this video and learning alot from it my son is in one corner still misbehaving I didn't even no when I shouted 🤣🤣🤣
2026-07-21 19:22:29
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fadhilahayoka :
ustaz are sure it will work sha because my just 2years old boy will look me with one side eye when I talk to him,at times it scared me I will pray to Allah to help me in raising him because I've never seen a two years old that raises eyeballs like him.
2026-07-24 12:01:55
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Fits by LEEYAH/RTW in Lagos :
Will 2 years old understand all this English cos it always feels like i am speaking to Myself
2026-07-22 08:33:24
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almukhtariyahempire001 :
the thing don even tiere me
2026-07-21 22:49:00
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Oladunni empire🥰 :
Omoh I pray this works ooo infact na every second I Dey craze😂
2026-07-22 06:59:45
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amanahomesng :
Very well said… and it applies to every normal human, they know exactly what they are doing, it’s left for you to save yourself the stress.
2026-07-21 22:55:09
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THRIFT STORE IN IJEBU ODE. :
I am not married but I listened to the end and learnt somthing new
2026-07-22 09:23:48
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Adeola🥰🥰🥰 :
My father is a ustaz and I could remember whenever he wants to punish us he ordered us to go carry our Quran and start reciting so we don’t really see reciting Quran as a easy thing to carry to the extent that when reciting Quran for prayer there is this pain I do feel on my throat as if it’s punishment and he never knew he’s the cause of that . This is my first time sharing this with anyone so I do have it in mind that I will never use reading of book or Quran as a punishment for my kids . Thank you Ustaz Al-areef
2026-07-22 22:53:25
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Al hasiyah :
Alfa I told a girl sleeping in my class to stand and jump in a gentle tone the girl never do anything almost 30 mins now, gentle parenting or guilding is not for some children se,she even look me for eyes like this
2026-07-23 15:56:37
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Rawda :
at what age are we talking about Sir
2026-07-22 08:12:55
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manishluxe.ng :
Is it too late for a child dat is already 10 pls
2026-07-22 12:20:12
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Cute_Hajia |Muslimah :
Raising this a year old twin is a whole lot on my neck
2026-07-22 11:15:25
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WaemifabricsCanada🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦 :
Jazaakallahu Khayran
2026-07-23 03:17:44
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