This is one of the best explanations as a victim of an avoidant that I have ever heard. Because it explains exactly the experience as the discard and also doesn’t demonize the avoidant.
2026-07-22 01:17:56
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Brandy9ss :
Explain this to me. My daughter talked to a guy for 4 years. The first year was long distance and he used that. Then he would travel into town a lot and visit his friends for a month or a few weeks and only see her a couple times. He kept telling her in the future. Then he would actually try and when they were going good he would back out. During those 4 years she gave him his space but he didn’t want it then he did. He would always come back with in a month. So she finally had enough and started dating someone else. He blocked her on everything but still tried to call her for almost a year but she wouldn’t pick up because she had a boyfriend. Then after a year he meets a girl and within 2 months he’s posting her and it’s his GF. He never dated my daughter because he had a long distance job where he would travel a lot. So was he ever an avoidant?
2026-07-22 00:27:16
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Andrea :
Will he only realize when I leave? Bc I’m about to move on after 4 years and found out he’s on tinder
2026-07-23 13:36:33
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she.of.the.mountain :
I told mine I loved him and he said he thought I was trying to manipulate him (I did love him)
2026-07-21 21:58:24
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user6277168498260 :
He knows ive loved him f9r 20 yrs. I think he loves me best he can but he never gives in, he always runs or says he just wants to be friends.
2026-07-22 17:06:04
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Kaylin Wells :
I’m always honest and transparent. I’m afraid this time it was just too much. Got ghosted out of nowhere and have no idea why. No goodbye, no closure, no I don’t want this, no I changed my mind. Just nothing.
2026-07-21 23:14:55
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GHADi :
What if they know how I feel and 3 years later they say the things you said but still pulls away and treats me like I don’t matter 🥺
2026-07-22 02:01:15
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