@coach.ryan0: They wanted all the benefits of your presence without the responsibility of your partnership. “Let’s just be friends” often isn’t a prize—it’s a demotion. Stop auditioning for a role you already earned. Let them experience what life looks like without unlimited access to you. #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyle #NoContact #RelationshipAdvice #HealingJourney

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toytoy_1003
Toy 🧸 :
Just went through this. Told her that I’m not her friend because I still have feelings and in the process of healing. Told her that she just wants access to me without having to be vulnerable, no accountability, and no intimacy. Told her the friendship would only benefit her. She blocked me. I’ve never felt more free by setting a boundary. I’m putting myself first again and regaining my power!
2026-07-22 14:01:13
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joughoftheoc
joughoftheOC :
"there will never be a friendship between where I don't want more"...walked away..hardest but best decision I've ever made
2026-07-22 02:55:29
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joetheroadguy
joe on the road :
She said we can still be friends and maybe hookup once in a while- but bring your std test if we do - no thanks, I said I can’t just be friends and went no contact over a year ago.
2026-07-22 01:35:28
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hughunderscorejness
Hugh J. Ness :
okay but why should I reject friendship if it could possibly blossom into something more
2026-07-23 01:29:28
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coleycakesxo
coleycakesxo :
It’s incredibly insulting and i said absolutely not
2026-07-24 02:44:44
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gailkatherine2489
GailsaMimi :
Yeah no, I broke it off and walked away. He gets no contact from me. Take care!
2026-07-22 01:26:51
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spicymay0naise
SpicyMayOnaise :
What's it mean when they don't offer friendship lol
2026-07-23 18:20:17
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fhb0130
fhb0130 :
Cos no one else will put up with their crap. But you know what, when they ghost you one too many times you harden and realise you are better than all this rubbish. Traumatic childhood or not, I had my own childhood stuff. For grown adults to see the damage they do to people and not want to get therapy - well they will just end up lonely in their mind and heart cos they lost out on the person that really loved them and tried.
2026-07-22 09:40:35
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tempted1234
Temperance :
He wanted to be friends and even buy the house Down the road from him that we both looked at together 😂
2026-07-22 10:28:06
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phillyc19
Philly :
But what happens when they are part of your friendship group. I have to see them. They are a member of my gym too. We can't just block and ignore 😭
2026-07-22 14:16:44
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lunayositobb
lunayosito :
Why they so evil
2026-07-23 00:12:40
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hannah_thatoregongirl
Hannah 🦋 :
Yep exactly what he offered…
2026-07-22 06:32:06
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amanda81453
amanda81453 :
He ended his discard message with “Your Friend” …..Abso-f-in-lutely not sir!!!
2026-07-22 01:03:07
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xninidontgaf
NiNi :
This is so exhausting.
2026-07-22 05:11:48
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brenbear007
Brenbear007 :
Jokes on him. I’ll friend zone him so hard he’ll get useless details he doesn’t need
2026-07-22 02:45:00
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cin352352
Lucinda :
I discarded him
2026-07-22 00:48:16
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lavidaesunacancion43
La vida es una canción 🎵 :
I dated him almost 3 years and tried to be his friend for a year .. it was so painfull … he just used me
2026-07-23 10:57:43
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lauracoad
Laura Coad :
This happened to me, I wished him well and told him goodbye as friendship wasn’t what I wanted
2026-07-22 06:43:23
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brennie6986
Brennie :
💯💯💯 true
2026-07-21 22:41:45
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heyyhazelgirl
Hazel Jadeite :
They have 3-4 other girls to gab too.
2026-07-22 02:18:41
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capricornin8th
Charlotte Uncharted :
He literally said, “We can still be friends though” after we get divorced( married 3 years) I said Absolutely not, and in fact I never will speak to you as long as I live.
2026-07-22 00:53:06
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bnb_ajb
BNB_AJB :
We celebrated 7 year anniversary last week then 2 days later he took his ring off moved to the couch says he doesn’t love me anymore and just wants to be good co parents but he hasn’t spoken to me in a week
2026-07-22 19:09:14
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radan0409
radan0409 :
Problem is they can’t even handle that. They still ghost
2026-07-22 01:34:37
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she.of.the.mountain
she.of.the.mountain :
What does it mean if he dog whistled on FB a few times and then unfriended me (not blocked)
2026-07-22 00:52:09
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