@coach.ryan0: They wanted all the benefits of your presence without the responsibility of your partnership. “Let’s just be friends” often isn’t a prize—it’s a demotion. Stop auditioning for a role you already earned. Let them experience what life looks like without unlimited access to you. #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyle #NoContact #RelationshipAdvice #HealingJourney
Just went through this. Told her that I’m not her friend because I still have feelings and in the process of healing. Told her that she just wants access to me without having to be vulnerable, no accountability, and no intimacy. Told her the friendship would only benefit her. She blocked me. I’ve never felt more free by setting a boundary. I’m putting myself first again and regaining my power!
2026-07-22 14:01:13
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joughoftheOC :
"there will never be a friendship between where I don't want more"...walked away..hardest but best decision I've ever made
2026-07-22 02:55:29
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joe on the road :
She said we can still be friends and maybe hookup once in a while- but bring your std test if we do - no thanks, I said I can’t just be friends and went no contact over a year ago.
2026-07-22 01:35:28
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Hugh J. Ness :
okay but why should I reject friendship if it could possibly blossom into something more
2026-07-23 01:29:28
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coleycakesxo :
It’s incredibly insulting and i said absolutely not
2026-07-24 02:44:44
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GailsaMimi :
Yeah no, I broke it off and walked away. He gets no contact from me. Take care!
2026-07-22 01:26:51
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SpicyMayOnaise :
What's it mean when they don't offer friendship lol
2026-07-23 18:20:17
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fhb0130 :
Cos no one else will put up with their crap. But you know what, when they ghost you one too many times you harden and realise you are better than all this rubbish. Traumatic childhood or not, I had my own childhood stuff. For grown adults to see the damage they do to people and not want to get therapy - well they will just end up lonely in their mind and heart cos they lost out on the person that really loved them and tried.
2026-07-22 09:40:35
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Temperance :
He wanted to be friends and even buy the house Down the road from him that we both looked at together 😂
2026-07-22 10:28:06
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Philly :
But what happens when they are part of your friendship group. I have to see them. They are a member of my gym too. We can't just block and ignore 😭
2026-07-22 14:16:44
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lunayosito :
Why they so evil
2026-07-23 00:12:40
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Hannah 🦋 :
Yep exactly what he offered…
2026-07-22 06:32:06
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amanda81453 :
He ended his discard message with “Your Friend” …..Abso-f-in-lutely not sir!!!
2026-07-22 01:03:07
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NiNi :
This is so exhausting.
2026-07-22 05:11:48
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Brenbear007 :
Jokes on him. I’ll friend zone him so hard he’ll get useless details he doesn’t need
2026-07-22 02:45:00
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Lucinda :
I discarded him
2026-07-22 00:48:16
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La vida es una canción 🎵 :
I dated him almost 3 years and tried to be his friend for a year .. it was so painfull … he just used me
2026-07-23 10:57:43
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Laura Coad :
This happened to me, I wished him well and told him goodbye as friendship wasn’t what I wanted
2026-07-22 06:43:23
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Brennie :
💯💯💯 true
2026-07-21 22:41:45
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Hazel Jadeite :
They have 3-4 other girls to gab too.
2026-07-22 02:18:41
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Charlotte Uncharted :
He literally said, “We can still be friends though” after we get divorced( married 3 years) I said Absolutely not, and in fact I never will speak to you as long as I live.
2026-07-22 00:53:06
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BNB_AJB :
We celebrated 7 year anniversary last week then 2 days later he took his ring off moved to the couch says he doesn’t love me anymore and just wants to be good co parents but he hasn’t spoken to me in a week
2026-07-22 19:09:14
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radan0409 :
Problem is they can’t even handle that. They still ghost
2026-07-22 01:34:37
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she.of.the.mountain :
What does it mean if he dog whistled on FB a few times and then unfriended me (not blocked)
2026-07-22 00:52:09
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