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babygirl, honeybee 🐝 :
Sometimes I still check his phone. I never find anything, but instead of feeling relieved, I just get this horrible feeling that maybe he’s simply gotten better at hiding it. After everything that happened, all the drama, and me finding out the truth, I can’t help but think that he learned from it and became more careful. I want to believe that he stopped, I really do. But deep down, something in me keeps telling me that he didn’t. And that feeling just won’t go away. 😞
2026-08-17 07:32:49
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Pheminine Power :
And the worst part about it all is he doesn’t understand how that feels because I would never do that to him
2026-08-13 23:44:45
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Paigeee :
Any time he’s not with me I question what he’s doing
2026-08-14 13:08:44
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Stacy lynn :
it doesn't go away. you either have to live with it or leave.
2026-08-13 13:18:29
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linds lately 🤎 :
Yup. Every time we’re having a great time it comes back too.
2026-08-15 01:48:38
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SNOW :
Like how do I know if this is intuition or trauma based paranoia
2026-08-17 15:56:26
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Stesh 1978888 :
yes trust is just gone u can't get it back
2026-09-01 03:48:01
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️ :
I forgave him, but I make sure I dont forgive his wallet. Living my life
2026-08-18 11:50:53
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Klaudia Maria Magdalena ❤ :
I forgave him but after everything I found on his phone I will never look at that phone the same way again. Every notification,every time he hides the screen,every time he’s online and ignores me… the doubt comes back💔
2026-08-17 11:42:34
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Stacey Shemmings :
this is why I would always leave i could never trust again and definitely couldn't spend the rest of my life giving anyone that luxury of taking all my energy when they don't deserve it
2026-08-31 17:04:32
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𝓼 :
For me it just keeps reappearing during the good, lovely-dovey moments. It’s like my brain keeps going, “It’s fake, it’s fake, it’s fake,” and because of that words don’t really mean much to me anymore. I feel more relieved when it’s his actions that consistently prove otherwise. I don’t think that feeling will ever completely disappear, but if you choose to live with it, you also have to accept that you can’t keep bringing it up over and over again. It’s not fair for him to constantly have to reassure you about the same thing either. Cause at some point, if you decide to stay, you have to learn to suffer through that uncertainty within yourself, because the door to leave was always wide open and you chose to close it. Once you make that choice, you have to give the relationship a genuine chance instead of constantly punishing yourself for staying.
2026-08-20 03:49:08
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Regie✨💫 :
N let me tell u from experience I’ve been in 23 yrs relationship giving chances and praying he changes but let me give you an advice walk away it’s hard very hard it took my 23 yrs so I know but this doesn’t get better the phone texts the long time in bathroom running in another room to answer or make calls this doesn’t get better it kills you inside and really messes you up ..cry get up wipe your tears and find the strength to move on n love yourself
2026-08-31 22:36:36
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N. :
And suddenly you’re back to the same place you fought so hard to get out of
2026-08-31 21:31:29
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lena ♡ :
I used to never be this way
2026-09-01 03:21:13
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MissRageツ :
Everytime I have a gut feeling I’m made to feel stupid but hey I’ve been right every time🤦♀️it’s always “it’s nothing” “I’ve not messaged anyone” but the phones still hidden looking for my kids shoes the other day it was hidden in the cupboard different girl one who was a friend guess trusting them just makes me the mug how did I think after 6 times anything would change and yet 7 I’m still here I’m so mentally drained yet I can’t leave I still love him omg wtf is this world seriously it’s like a movie but a fed up one 😩😴😴
2026-08-31 19:40:27
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Liaa 🤍 :
“forgiving is easy, forgetting is the hard part” !!!
2026-08-17 05:30:03
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Kate. :
And I feel like they are never truely sorry just sorry they got caught
2026-08-18 02:45:14
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saaaaaarx1mcd :
What about when he’s on his phone beside you and you refuse to even look his way because of trauma 😅
2026-08-22 03:03:02
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Wendy :
Healing is not a straight line. Trust will NEVER return, so your job is to decide if it's worth living with the triggers
2026-08-18 17:16:53
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Ali :
Leave him then …. Life’s too short to be disrespected
2026-08-20 14:17:37
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shenk.xis :
Forgiveness and trust are two very different things. You can forgive someone and still find yourself reacting every time you see the phone, notice a change in behavior, or encounter something that reminds you of what happened. And sometimes, that’s where people become frustrated with themselves. They think, “I said I forgave this, so, why am I still feeling this way?” But forgiveness doesn’t automatically restore what the betrayal disrupted. Trust, emotional safety, predictability, and your confidence in what you believe about the relationship may all have been affected too. That’s why constantly checking can become about more than the phone. At some point, you may be trying to find reassurance that you’re safe from being blindsided again. And if reassurance only lasts until the next trigger, then the deeper issue probably isn’t being resolved by checking. So, the question may not simply be, “Have I forgiven him?” It may be: What would actually have to be true in this relationship for me to no longer feel like I need to investigate it in order to feel secure? That’s a much deeper conversation than forgiveness alone.
2026-08-17 00:02:11
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Kimberly Alicia :
Yupppppp…. The feeling and the WONDER never ever EVER goes away, ladies. Trust me on this…😭
2026-08-15 04:05:48
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Jay perks :
I’m going through this right now 😔 I know he’s no good for me & I deserve better but it’s so hard to walk away xx
2026-08-17 10:51:53
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