@cypher.j: Just to help anybody dealing with this! (it might lag just a bit if you're early!) #irritation #women #men #relationships

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greenkiasportage
olivier :
damn my nigga
2026-07-22 04:05:38
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theejasminesnow
Thee Dr. Snow to Be, LPC ❄️ :
That “what’s wrong with you?” sets us off more than they think, too.
2026-07-22 01:00:42
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7th_fila
F î Ł Ā :
The right thing to do, is to leave her alone and clean both your living quarters. She silently appreciates it and will gradually open up to what annoyed her.
2026-07-21 23:50:26
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dellzbanned
dellzbanned :
Folk turning me into the greatest boyfriend ever 😂 . Just gotta find her
2026-07-21 23:26:10
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dolladidthat
Dolla :
It’s also way easier mentally to stop managing others emotions all the time.
2026-07-21 23:16:29
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manager_kim
Rick’s Grimey :
Growing up in a home with an aggressive mother and a passive father really drills this instinct into you: regulate the woman and fix the situation. Do what she wants so she’ll go to bed or focus on something else. That skill got me through my childhood, but I can see in hindsight how it sabotages relationships and helps to repress my own needs and wants.
2026-07-22 02:02:48
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woofwoofpass
woofwoofpass :
YEEESSSS GOD. We don't WANT you to fix everything! We just want to be allowed to be upset and still sit with you anyway! "Seems like you had a bad day, do you wanna talk? Damn, that's messed up. I'm sorry that happened to you at work today baby, I think that would've upset me too. That really sucks. Do you want a drink from the fridge?" IT'S SO FUCKING EASY.
2026-07-22 01:46:56
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jumbisislife
Dev :
this is crazy man. she's been trying to tell me this for years, I think you finally got through to me though
2026-07-22 00:07:36
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kellica_gezzar
Kellica_Gezzar :
sometimes i want to just be sad or angry or whatever for a little while let me process
2026-07-22 08:46:11
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jaecheondaeseong06
Vinnie :
Best thing to do in my experience is give her a hug and when she looks like she’s ready to talk ask if she’s ok.
2026-07-22 08:46:27
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inoahguyva
Noah :
trying to handle people's emotions is way easier when you stop worrying about it's impact on you and start asking if they're okay
2026-07-22 06:38:12
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j4yswrld15
J4y! :
even when the situation doesn’t apply to me i always find a lesson to take from your words. One of the greatest minds of our generation
2026-07-21 23:37:36
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summertimeprince
TevinTW :
I haven't seen this man miss YET
2026-07-22 01:15:01
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heluvbeja
mai :
thanks justin
2026-07-22 08:01:06
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esospheric
OJA_EJIGBOOROMEKUN🌴 :
when Justin cooks, everywhere smells wisdom 👌.
2026-07-22 00:16:04
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cherchez_laghost
cherchezlaghost :
I talk to my children about the more challenging emotions I’m experiencing and offer reassurance. I’m responsible for being irritated but also responsible for communicating that, clearly.
2026-07-22 02:57:24
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skynard139
Skynard139 :
heavy on the "maybe she doesn't know yet" My day is filled with so many micro decisions that the one that set me off might not be why I'm mad. I need to unpack that shyt for a minute
2026-07-22 04:40:50
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rnie_24
Arnie :
this is an exact interpretation of how every relationship i have goes for me
2026-07-22 06:32:21
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slow4oh
Josh :
this can literally be translated outside of the relationship too. not only intimate relationships
2026-07-22 00:22:50
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trei76
Trei Michaels :
Except when men have bad days like the ones youre describing women do, they become bad partners because eventually on top of working through his own emotions he'll have to console her and make her feel safe
2026-07-22 06:14:54
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alexalexalexalex101
alexalexalexalex101 :
Exactly but your woman is not your mom
2026-07-22 02:07:57
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joeymaddre
Joey :
damn I needed to hear this bro thanks
2026-07-21 23:44:08
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