That “what’s wrong with you?” sets us off more than they think, too.
2026-07-22 01:00:42
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F î Ł Ā :
The right thing to do, is to leave her alone and clean both your living quarters. She silently appreciates it and will gradually open up to what annoyed her.
2026-07-21 23:50:26
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dellzbanned :
Folk turning me into the greatest boyfriend ever 😂 . Just gotta find her
2026-07-21 23:26:10
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Dolla :
It’s also way easier mentally to stop managing others emotions all the time.
2026-07-21 23:16:29
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Rick’s Grimey :
Growing up in a home with an aggressive mother and a passive father really drills this instinct into you: regulate the woman and fix the situation. Do what she wants so she’ll go to bed or focus on something else. That skill got me through my childhood, but I can see in hindsight how it sabotages relationships and helps to repress my own needs and wants.
2026-07-22 02:02:48
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woofwoofpass :
YEEESSSS GOD. We don't WANT you to fix everything! We just want to be allowed to be upset and still sit with you anyway! "Seems like you had a bad day, do you wanna talk? Damn, that's messed up. I'm sorry that happened to you at work today baby, I think that would've upset me too. That really sucks. Do you want a drink from the fridge?" IT'S SO FUCKING EASY.
2026-07-22 01:46:56
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Dev :
this is crazy man. she's been trying to tell me this for years, I think you finally got through to me though
2026-07-22 00:07:36
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Kellica_Gezzar :
sometimes i want to just be sad or angry or whatever for a little while
let me process
2026-07-22 08:46:11
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Vinnie :
Best thing to do in my experience is give her a hug and when she looks like she’s ready to talk ask if she’s ok.
2026-07-22 08:46:27
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Noah :
trying to handle people's emotions is way easier when you stop worrying about it's impact on you and start asking if they're okay
2026-07-22 06:38:12
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J4y! :
even when the situation doesn’t apply to me i always find a lesson to take from your words. One of the greatest minds of our generation
2026-07-21 23:37:36
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TevinTW :
I haven't seen this man miss YET
2026-07-22 01:15:01
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mai :
thanks justin
2026-07-22 08:01:06
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OJA_EJIGBOOROMEKUN🌴 :
when Justin cooks, everywhere smells wisdom 👌.
2026-07-22 00:16:04
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cherchezlaghost :
I talk to my children about the more challenging emotions I’m experiencing and offer reassurance. I’m responsible for being irritated but also responsible for communicating that, clearly.
2026-07-22 02:57:24
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Skynard139 :
heavy on the "maybe she doesn't know yet" My day is filled with so many micro decisions that the one that set me off might not be why I'm mad. I need to unpack that shyt for a minute
2026-07-22 04:40:50
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Arnie :
this is an exact interpretation of how every relationship i have goes for me
2026-07-22 06:32:21
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Josh :
this can literally be translated outside of the relationship too. not only intimate relationships
2026-07-22 00:22:50
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Trei Michaels :
Except when men have bad days like the ones youre describing women do, they become bad partners because eventually on top of working through his own emotions he'll have to console her and make her feel safe
2026-07-22 06:14:54
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alexalexalexalex101 :
Exactly but your woman is not your mom
2026-07-22 02:07:57
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Joey :
damn I needed to hear this bro thanks
2026-07-21 23:44:08
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