Grow with Kaela
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_StephsDope🙃🐾 :
He did both. I'm convinced he was trying to reverse discard for months coupled with pulling me back in when I did push away. he was sadistic, the human version of playing with his prey for funsies until he finally discarded
2026-07-22 11:43:06
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Tessa :
He pushed me away, and then blamed me for going.
2026-07-22 04:02:40
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gneous :
I discarded the avoidant. No guilt over here
2026-07-22 13:52:58
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TheFlockFather :
I just left a 20 year marriage on the 1st. It’s awful but I know it was right
2026-07-22 03:44:25
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Bridgtt☕️🍯 :
Definitely pushed! But he wanted it. It was a date with another woman when 5 days before that date I was in bed with him! I wont tolerate that disrespect it was in my face! Made me sick 🤢
2026-07-22 02:45:36
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melwhite335 :
Yup! He love-bombed me in the beginning, then push/pull, distancing. It was disorienting. When I told him my mother died, I got a "sorry, babe" text, then radio silence for days. I immediately broke it off. I actually pity him. He missed out on something wonderful 💅🏼
2026-09-19 14:31:55
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Malissa Austin :
I suspect this is happening to me right now...
2026-08-20 19:29:01
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Meld0yAfterb00b :
What if they keep begging you to stay?
2026-08-02 21:10:06
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Paula Dickinson :
I see this a lot . It’s a spineless move that in their distorted mindset they can then “ be the perfect person who did EVERYTHING “ the challenge is that it becomes a pattern and they can’t hide as everyone sees it . Any new partner eventually puts it together and misery surround them . The VICTIM MENTALITY is their favourite position and eventually that mask fades and people see who they really are and that’s generally a person incapable of healthy love .
2026-07-23 04:28:17
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Insomnizach :
Yep. 6 months of being told wanted then ignored then wanted. And it would have went on forever if I let it.
2026-08-06 13:37:37
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lindsay :
I left because I finally had enough and knew the pattern was going to continue if I didnt leave. a little over 6 months later , I am finally feeling better and glad I made that decision 🙏🏽 I am glad I also ended things ina respective way unlike him who turned into someone I didnt recognize when I said my boundary and good bye.
2026-07-22 01:39:04
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shaylahc1 :
The jokes on my ex. I was abused as a child so his poor treatment just made me try harder. It ended up blowing up in his face when he was caught cheating
2026-07-22 02:37:56
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Yolo2Solo❌ :
And then they say “you broke up with me!” Never realizing the push was the reason. 😏
2026-09-10 00:34:39
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Aurora :
They are so cruel.
2026-07-22 15:34:12
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sunbrnt :
I was being pushed away and gaslit, only to find out he was living a double life. Then I got blamed for the cheating. 16 years!! Don’t get mad, get yourself back.
2026-07-22 16:46:39
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The Madame :
My BD tried this with me, but I did not leave and in fact kept pushing him to act right. He ended up leaving and I can tell he was SO mad I didn’t leave first.
2026-07-25 05:56:07
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𝘕𝘪𝘴𝘦𝘺 💜✨⁷ :
He did this to me the first time before I knew he was FA. I did give another chance and he did it again. But I’m proud that I recognized his pattern earlier and got clarity that he wasn’t going to change. Almost six months no contact and working on getting myself back.
2026-07-22 09:14:31
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WIP_247 :
That’s EXACTLY how i feel. It sux. Thats where i am.
2026-08-27 23:35:19
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deestoff :
I needed to hear this today
2026-07-31 22:33:05
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Jason :
This makes so much sense.
2026-07-23 22:48:51
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Jazzie 🌸 :
He cheated on me. I made sure i told friends and family so he couldn’t rewrite the story
2026-09-05 11:33:21
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BloomAfterRain 🇨🇦 ❌ :
That’s exactly what mine did. I know he blames me, but I know the truth, and deep down so does he
2026-07-22 14:14:29
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user71717171717 :
how can the avoidants fix this
2026-08-12 21:10:04
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Kenneth Smith :
I thought all of those things. ...she wanted to "take a break" and "put everything on pause" ...I said I don't do breaks ...and walked away...and it was one of the hardest things I've ever done...
2026-07-22 02:32:48
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Stouts :
my DA was cheating and i found out... of course had to end it...
2026-08-06 09:51:13
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