turbomanceltic1888 :
perimenopause caused my partner to break down and tell me about sa when she was young,she left shortly after and blamed me,instead of dealing with the trauma she has suppressed for 40y,won't talk about it and maintains it's irrelevant, well breaking down and telling your partner of 32y,something you have buried and never mentioned in 32y,to say its not affecting you?im I wrong,my reward for wanting her to seek help instead of trying bury what is obviously effecting her,I was accused of being the reason for her leaving because I disrespected her,I know the conversations we had,that she now denied happened, she went from being honest to taking no accountability at all and still won't compromise, she want it all her way,won't communicate although we have two kids,thst due to her are now separated, which is affecting both,all my fault,not hers,clarity and afresh start,even telling the kids,I'll find someone else,ffs,kids heard her say she wished she never met me,my son said that would mean he and his sister wouldn't be hear,ffs,
2026-07-22 03:01:05