charli☆˚✧⁎⁺˳✧༚
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✯𖦹 indica 𖦹✯ :
The lesbian master doc. I realized what comphet was. Then I realized oh shit. That’s what I do. Now I’m an open and happy lesbian and I wouldn’t change it for the world
2026-07-31 14:32:46
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Stéphanie B :
When I was with men, flirting and dating could feel exciting, but always because of the interest and attention they gave me. For example: "oh wow he thinks I'm pretty! That makes me feel good". With a woman... It's about HER. The butterflies are about how beautiful, funny and smart she is. With a woman I fall in love with HER, not with how she makes me feel.
2026-07-22 21:35:30
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user35746482 :
You can still find men attractive aesthetically but don’t feel an attractive connection. I also only liked the idea of men being attracted to me (result of patriarchy) rather than actually wanting to be with them - I wanted to be seen as desirable through their eyes
2026-07-23 05:08:16
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★kenzie★ :
I’d only “like” a guy if they gave me constant attention and compliments and all of my crushes would be random guys that I’d make random eye contact with and talking stages would last a week or two because I didn’t feel interested anymore. You aren’t alone a lot of lesbians have been where you are before and you don’t have to figure it out straight away, it took me 6 years to come to terms and figure out I was a lesbian. Deep down I always knew but I was just scared.🤍🤍
2026-08-21 21:41:58
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jaden (≗ ᆽ ≗) :
the two things that made me realize it were that 1. i didn’t question my attraction for women the way i did with men 2. the first time i kissed a man i didn’t like it because i wanted him to be a girl so badly 😭
2026-08-21 21:10:15
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Amelia🏹🌀 :
The thought of dih and that the ‘nervous’ feeling around men ISNT butterflies but being uncomfortable
2026-07-24 17:40:58
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mana 🌺🍹 :
I would see a man like Chad Michael Murray and say he's attractive but I realized that even if I had a man who wanted me and looked exactly like him I would never ever date him
2026-07-22 22:23:40
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cris! 🫒 :
People who are into men don’t agonize over whether they’re into men. They just are. I just wasn’t, no matter how hard I tried to rationalize it!
2026-07-24 00:00:02
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helena 🪽 :
I didn’t get why people would actually marry men. I didn’t see myself spending time and sharing deep personal stories with a man, and couldn’t see why someone would do that. When I thought of doing it with a woman, it felt natural
2026-07-22 15:46:06
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♡ྀི didi ˖ ˚₊ :
for me personally it was just realizing that even if the perfect man came to my life and he did everything for me I'd still feel disgusted and uncomfortable just because he's a man, also marrying a man is my worst nightmare ever so yeah, if you have had those thoughts then I assure you you're a lesbian 😭
2026-07-24 20:53:26
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Abbie :
I gave up working it out. Don’t feel pressure to label it. You will fall in love with whoever you fall in love with. Experiment, go with what feels right (Women).
2026-07-24 19:44:20
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Mari :
the only men i was atracted to were either famous our fictional and looked like a masc lesbian
2026-07-22 15:59:23
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chloe😛 :
My perfect man was always a woman. I’ve never met a man that I could imagine a life with. Are they attractive? Sure! But that’s surface level.
2026-08-20 05:14:40
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ThisAquariusMoon :
Man these comments are so GAY and I LOVE IT. I'm tearing up over here - I am a huge raging lesbian before anyone asks lmao.
2026-07-23 03:39:24
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Cheeky🇦🇺 :
I realised when I was dating a guy and he grabbed my hand to hold while we walked through the shopping centre. It felt wrong. Like my hand shouldn’t be in the hand of a man. And I realised that I’d felt like that with every guy I’d dated, even more so with the one I married, but had never felt that way when I was with a woman. Then my hand found the hand of my fiancée and I knew that every hand I’d held through my life was helping me climb out of the darkness to the light that is her 🥰
2026-07-22 20:27:26
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Olive Jack :
I realized I was desperate for love, so I started dating a bunch of men and never felt loved or really cared for. I felt like a stranger in my relationships.
2026-08-21 07:35:35
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avery ༊*·˚ :
I always felt like I wouldn’t get married and I’d be happier just living with my best friend. That’s when I realized that I was in love with her. She made me feel less broken. The world stopped when I was with her. We don’t talk anymore and now the world moves too fast for me to move on
2026-07-22 19:21:08
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🦦⸆⸉ :
i realized pretty young before i ever dated anybody, but i realized that i was kinda forcing myself to feel anything about the male celebrities i claimed to have crushes on whereas i actually did feel something about the female celebrities i found attractive. also i saw the maya hawke calvin klein ad on a billboard and all but screamed in the car while i was in the questioning phase and that kinda just hammered it in ✌️
2026-08-20 15:41:15
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< Olivia 3 :
i realised that every guy that i had ever liked was unobtainable, like characters from anime and such, and eventually the list of them that i liked got smaller and smaller until the only one left was a character id repeatedly mistake for a woman
2026-07-23 05:14:47
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Bibs :
I felt like every time I was with a man everything felt kinda fake? Like I was trying really hard to fit in. When I got my first girlfriend I finally understood what being with someone should feel like.
2026-07-22 08:55:02
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✮ 𝐚𝐯𝐚✮ :
so uhm i had my first kiss with a man and then i just stopped liking men
2026-07-24 21:10:14
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✨️anahi✨️ :
I thought I was bi because I did find some men attractive, but I realized I didn’t want to kiss/sleep with them. I just know that they are attractive
2026-07-24 20:12:09
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Nina :
When I realized i cannot imagine my future with any men in my house.
2026-07-24 21:12:09
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꧁CH꧂ :
Alternatively, sexuality is a spectrum. You don’t have to decide if you’re 100% lesbian or 100% bisexual. I identify as queer because while I don’t know where exactly I sit in the spectrum between bi and lesbian I know that I don’t want to live my life with a cis man. It can be that simple.
2026-07-24 15:32:19
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Es 🪼⚢ :
I went on a date with a guy who seemed nice and generally attractive, he was so sweet and was honestly a perfect date. I still didn’t like him :,) I also tend to want people to like me romantically and when they do (specifically men) I immediately lose any kind of interest or need for attention from them
2026-08-21 22:14:20
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