@alex_vargas_reality.tv: I was sad for so long….being happy is kinda scary tbh it’s like sadness was an old friend that’s gone away 😂 idk how to explain it
It’s because your hormones are regulated now. It’s not the constant and addictive up and down of cortisol and dopamine. It’s level. Which feels almost… anticlimactic. Push through, and it’ll feel like peace. Just read some books or watch some movies that are sad AF.
2026-07-23 06:05:30
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disneymommy13 :
When I feel too happy or calm, I feel like it’s a sign I’m going to die soon … so I say out loud , “god please don’t take me yet”😔
2026-07-22 18:58:06
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Charissa🖤never a phase👻 :
It just feels uncomfortable and foreign almost. But I swear that will get better at some point.
2026-07-22 18:48:02
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Rbn :
I actually understand what you mean. But it’s so bittersweet. It’s beautiful. We will not miss being sad one day. Keep your head up and enjoy it! 💯 But totally understandable and relatable. (I always feel I’m a little crazy and alone to feel this way, so thnx for making me not feel so like that).
2026-07-22 14:10:37
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Mona’s Selfcare Shop :
Sometimes we think being happy can equate with boredom, but peacefulness and calmness is top tier selfcare 🧖♀️
2026-07-23 05:58:32
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heather33331 :
My daughters therapist told her that your nervous system craves what it feels comfortable and used to. For her it was chaos and destruction, so whenever things were going well for her she would almost self sabotage to get back to that chaotic feeling. It can be really difficult to push through it but once your nervous system recognises happiness and comfort as its norm, then that’s what it will begin to crave 🫶🏻
2026-07-22 08:51:48
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Becky :
You may not be one of my favorite creators, but I would never want to see someone afraid to be happy or struggling emotionally. Sometimes people fear happiness because they feel they have more to lose.
It’s important to reflect on why you feel that way and find healthy ways to cope. Also, when discussing people like Taylor Frankie Paul, be mindful of how much emotional energy you give to situations that may bring you down. Protect your own mental health and be careful what you allow into your space.
2026-07-22 11:41:55
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Liz Dean :
I get exactly what you mean it’s uncomfortable and it’s hard to explain that to people who haven’t been there 🫶🏻
2026-07-22 05:00:38
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A_Tate :
I know this feeling all too well 💔
2026-07-23 03:20:46
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💋Sarah💋 :
Georgia said it best in Ginny and Georgia, "Nothing scares me like being happy. Happiness is the scariest thing to be. Once you're happy, you have so much more to lose."
2026-07-22 04:01:33
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Kendra Jaymes :
You’ll learn to enjoy the happy… when idk I’m figuring it out but you got this
2026-07-22 17:20:26
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Katy Rose Verry :
I understand this
2026-07-22 07:50:46
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suescookingobsession :
I completely get it ❤️
2026-07-22 05:24:50
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Jamil Cunningham Hammal :
maybe you're a masochist
2026-07-22 20:10:49
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