Yvonnethedancer :
Hi Dr. Howard,Thank you for taking the time to educate others. I wanted to share our family's story. My ex-husband is a two-time Purple Heart veteran who served six combat tours in Iraq & Afghanistan. He returned home with severe PTSD and traumatic brain injuries (TBI). Our home eventually became a place of violence, and I ultimately divorced him, but by then the damage to our family had already been done. Our family psychiatrist believes those years of trauma were the greatest trigger for what unfolded next. Our oldest son was diagnosed with autism at age 8 in 1998, when it was still commonly referred to as Asperger's syndrome. He was brilliant—a gifted young man who graduated from college with two degrees in English and Film Studies, along with a Film Director Certification. He was only 25 years old and had accepted a position with Warner Bros. Studios. Shortly after our divorce and his college graduation, he experienced a severe psychotic break. While in Hollywood preparing to begin his new job, he became lost and disoriented. His college friends called to tell us something was terribly wrong. We drove 19 hours straight to Los Angeles to find him.
What followed were six heartbreaking years of jail cells, emergency rooms, courtrooms, psychiatric hospitals, and one terrifying brush with death from sepsis before we were finally able to stabilize him. I fought relentlessly to advocate for him every step of the way. He tried countless medications, but haloperidol ultimately became the one that gave him his life back.
Today he is 36 years old. He attends therapy twice a month and is thriving within the boundaries of his illness. He doesn't work, but he finds purpose through volunteer work. Travel is a significant trigger, so we intentionally keep his world small, predictable, and peaceful. We grieved the future we once imagined for him, but today we celebrate the remarkable man he is and everything he has overcome. He is, without question, one of the strongest people I know.
While we were navigating his illness, both of my daughters were struggling with PTSD. I arranged counseling and support for them, but our youngest daughter's journey became especially
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