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Tifa’s Tiny Treasures 🇵🇸 :
Read this as “defecation” 😭
2026-07-22 18:00:18
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thehungryytaurus :
This. Being deified is actually terrifying in real life. Then they create a one sided internal beef based on their projection, like bitch I bleed and cry too.
2026-07-22 18:40:40
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Reuven Betzalel :
When they put you on a pedestal, they will also often be happy to watch you fall from that height.
2026-07-22 18:03:11
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Karen Vasquez :
I do this to myself. Gotta remind myself I am a complex human with complex feelingsssssss
2026-07-22 16:34:15
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bigsoda25 :
As a trans person my brain instantly went to when “allies” give a lot of lip service to propping trans people up as like “ethereal ascended humans” (and not just regular people who happen to be trans) because it so obviously blatantly reads as “I’ll never see or treat you as a regular man/woman so instead of unlearning the bigotry that makes me think this way i’m going to just overly compliment you so it makes me feel like I’m being a good person”.
2026-07-22 17:41:22
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lolifescience :
Deification is absolutely a problem bc it does not allow for nuance. Family, friends, celebrities, teachers, etc. are deified consistently.
2026-07-22 15:04:56
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𝓙𝓸𝓳𝓸 ʚ♡⃛ɞ :
You’re also setting them up for failure. They will never meet the standard you are setting them up for.
2026-07-24 04:50:44
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🌶️BevoLottiBae❤️🔥🗣️ :
PARENTS, FRIENDS, SIBLINGS, MENTORS, DEITIES AS WELL
2026-07-22 21:22:09
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emmi :
The danger of false idols
2026-07-22 18:53:16
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Briezy47 :
Wake it up!💯💯💯💯💯
2026-07-23 22:38:18
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lolatisi :
Yes, from personal experience, you don't feel heard or seen. If people hold on tight to this version of you, they brush off everything that doesn't fit into their idea of you. It is an alienating experience, even as a grown woman this feels very off-putting.
2026-07-22 17:45:42
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Oracle Scents :
Yes people also project their own needs and expectations on those people, denying the person's needs and experience.
2026-07-23 04:57:43
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j :
100% agree and it's depressing to see how so many marginalized groups have to deal with this. It's a constant swinging pendulum between being dehumanized and deified: never being allowed to be just human.
2026-07-22 17:15:12
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A̷Q̷Z̶ :
“To be beautiful is to be hunted” -childish gambino
2026-07-23 01:38:07
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Tam :
This is so true and especially important now, with parasocial relationships on social media
2026-07-22 15:23:56
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Lime-salt :
this is actually important for people to know and practice.. it would save us from alot of pain and suffering
2026-07-22 14:35:13
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yourfriendrainy 🌧️ :
I see this in the metaphysical community all the time.
2026-07-22 16:54:27
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cyrée jarelle johnson :
yes, absolutely
2026-07-22 16:37:48
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Abbey :
already recognised this in a previous friendship I had but u made me acc think bout it on a deeper level
2026-07-22 14:54:03
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Atley :
People deify theorists all the time and that’s how we end up with bad medicine and science. Galen, Freud, Darwin. These people were human and they had great ideas. But people didn’t question their conclusions and it led to a long line of misinterpretation and blindly following theories. That’s not their fault. Just because somebody writes a book doesn’t mean it’s completely true. And both Freud and Darwin struggled to decide if and when to publish because of this very fear of their words being over used prematurely. They wrote about it. Both of them.
2026-07-22 17:15:58
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Kristina :
This is why “divine feminine” will literally never be helpful
2026-07-23 19:41:46
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empty_pyrex_dish :
There's times when I am rancid & need correction, not disappointment bc I didn't live up to someones standards.
2026-07-22 21:23:27
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youngles_2.0 :
Absolutely this. This happens a lot to Asian people especially with all the waves right now
2026-07-22 21:59:25
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Comfort Creator Collective :
Yes! When people say “you never miss” I worry for people because no one is perfect and everyone deserves grace!!
2026-07-22 21:23:07
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